At 10/14/09 11:33 PM, BoMToons wrote:
I've just been put in charge of Boy Scouts in my church. All the boys seem really un-motivated by their current leaders. Any advice on how to motivate 12-17 yr old boys to accomplish goals?
Are they like lazy-unmotivated or ADHD-unmotivated.
I was put in charge of teaching about 7 ADHD 11-year olds how to put up a tent one time... it's not easy.
My dad was the leader of my group. What we did to motivate people was after the groups accomplished their goals they got to play a game for the rest of the meeting. The one the kids all liked (the adults weren't too fond of), was "elimination". You have a tennis ball, a court, and a bunch of kids. Throw the ball up into the group. If you have the ball, nobody can move. You can then bean it at someone. if it hits them, they're out. If they catch it, the person who threw it is out. Because people can only move when nobody is holding the ball, and the court is free for all, you always end up with this wave pattern where someone will throw it, everyone will actually run away from it then when they realize nobody is going towards it they all turn around and run to try and get it. It's fun and you can get hurt (some people can bean the tennis ball pretty hard) so it builds character.
We also like, for campouts and stuff, had each group plan their own meals ahead of time. If they did a crappy job planning their meals, they ate crappy food on the campout and had to watch the group that planned right or the adult group eat great food while they're all stuck with poptarts. After that happens a few times they'll all get the gist and start taking that seriously.