At 3/20/13 02:28 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/18/13 05:00 PM, Haggard wrote: According to NGLogs, I now have 100,000 Total Stats!

Of course I reached that goal on the Hexalist quite some time ago.

I wish NGlog would count medals. (Seeings how it claims to count the same way the 10k list does.)

Anyway, seeings how the Hexalist is the authority on what is/isn't a stat, I'd say you reached 100k...quite some time ago. :P

I was meant to comment on this before. Although I mentioned 140,000 total points the other day, I've already reached that a while back considering the inclusion of medals. Maybe we can have a discussion with byteslinger and see if medals can be counted for the combined total. At this point I find it to be acceptable so we should throw some thoughts around in the NG Log thread or something.

At 3/19/13 02:03 PM, Bahamut wrote: That said, I'm still a bit down about the break up but I've been talking to some people and looking back at things, more and more it seems that it was for the better but on the other hand, it does hurt to feel how much we could have done together and what we planned to do in the near-future and now it's all gone out the window.

I remember my girlfriend at the time asking her mom if she could go with me on vacation over the weekend of my birthday. So, yeah, there's a nice, depressing story for ya. :P

I can easily look to myself and think at least not so much went down the drain as it could have. The most that we did with each other during the relationship was being together in one city which was the central point between the two of us. The only other thing was hanging out in one place in Liverpool and then a pub crawl, the latter being the downhill point. It's unfortunate that the city where we had our dates will look painful to look at when I'm next there but I can't avoid these places forever, particularly when they're so local. I may find myself in that said city next month so I can tackle any fears/hurtful emotions I have when going through there sooner than later.

I'd try and get the worst feelings out of the system right now but life insists I push forward as opposed to dwelling on past misfortunes.

It's best not to dwell on these kinds of things, anyway, they tend just to linger around and turn sour in your gut. :P

That's why I'm wanting to get them out sooner than later. If my heart feels minimally hurt on a daily basis then I'm on the right track.

Oh, and for the first time my replies have to be separated into two posts. Shame it's not for the happiest reasons but at least it's getting us all talking.

For the first time, ever? Now that's saying something. ;)

Hahahaha, if only. What I obviously meant was that it's been a long time since we last needed multi posts for quotes. It was much easier when gfox was around but... you know. I've said to him myself during a recent PM that I no longer put pressure on him to start posting here again. I see him less and less for depositing and even on Steam so that's saying something. I last gave him a double PM to reply to everything and next time it might go across three or four messages, haha.

At 3/19/13 02:04 PM, Bahamut wrote: You know what, I was able to enjoy myself a lot with them last night online so I wasn't entirely depressed all of yesterday.

Good. I don't know if you exercise at all, but I've always found it to be a good outlet for those kind of emotions, and a good confidence-builder, besides.

Not the first time I've heard that lately. Exercising is something that I've put on my new years resolution and while it might be a generic one, it's one that would do a lot of good for me. Now if only I knew which friends go to the gym on a regular basis. I would have to make it somewhere that isn't over the water and thankfully I do have friends on this side so who knows. As a matter of fact, I was meant to be seeing if a friend of mine is still taking weekly trips to the swimming baths with his brother but I haven't heard anything about that since the start of the year. Mind you, I'm not fond of the local swimming baths with it being Birkenhead and all but it's always worth giving it a shot if I'm with someone I know.

I know for next time whenever something just isn't right, maybe a bit of time on their own will help but if they persist on not seeing me on dates when we're meant to be together, I'll have to speak up for myself. For a relationship, I want to be happy with a girl and do all sorts of things between the two of us whether it be walking around one city, watching a movie together, going to live shows, taking adventures, etc. You know, what a couple should actually be doing. Common sense surely tells you that the two should be there for each other in the most difficult of times but that wasn't happening for me in the end. She was just distancing herself away from me more and more.

Yup, you know you've found the right one when she's like your best friend, with teats. :P I remember playing through the Wind Waker with her left hand controlling the joystick and my right hand controlling all the buttons. (Hmm, now that I think back on that; what does that say about who was in control of that relationship?) lmao

And a best friend would not hide away their troubles if they are in need of help and they broadcast all sorts of shit on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc. They would be willing to listen out on what their partner says and not just throw things right back at them. If you try and make others feel better, you should take for granted that there are those who will do the same for you in return Those problems are why she didn't seem like a best friend to me in the end. I do feel a love partner should also be like their best friend in the sense that they would talk about common interests very often and be there to help each other.

Personally I don't want to think I have a single best friend as I have quite a diverse lifestyle. I'll hang out with people who play role-playing board games and card games (*cough*nerds*cough* XD), I'll be with those who I know from a local rock bar that I go to on occasions, I'm willing to see old friends going all the way back to secondary school, I have my rare chances to meet those from Newgrounds and then I have some, uhhhh, furries. Some of them may mix and match just fine but having something like furries going to said rock bar would probably cause a riot. :P

HOWEVER, if there is someone who I can deem as a best friend, it's the one who's been seeing live shows with me on various occasions. Not to put everyone else down but it is hard to top someone who's been willing to see live shows with me because we both liked the band(s) we saw. It doesn't stop at music, though as we also have common interests in video games and TV, particularly with Red Dwarf and Doctor Who but I have a shit ton to watch before I'm even considered a hardcore fan of the latter.

As far as relationships go, I cannot and should not expect 100% common interests between the two. While me and her weren't 100% for sure, there were common interests as well, particularly with heavy metal and that was something that could have expanded if things had worked out better. We were wanting to see live shows together but... that's another thing that just won't happen now. At least she had better interests than the previous one who I tried to go out with. Apart from one thing, we had nothing in common whatsoever. I never want to be too picky with what a girl likes/doesn't like as I would only find myself impossible to please. There are reasonable measures, though as if there was one girl who could not stand heavy metal at all, then clearly it wouldn't work out all that well. I just said to myself that a relationship should at least show we can enjoy ourselves with our activities and if we weren't going to have fun, then it's not going to work out.

At 3/20/13 02:28 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote: Well put. I've always been pretty terrible about meeting new people, so all the girls I've ever met were introduced to me, or coworkers, most of which are already in relationships, of course.

I have been hit and miss with people. From 2012's experiences, I've met a few people in Chester, one of them being a dragon fanatic like I am, and since I've seen them I've had some games on TF2 with them and for a game that you can play so often, that's always good for us all. However, for a bad experience with an attempt to meet friends of friends, the new year celebration just went past is a great example of that. One guy and his girlfriend were hostile to us and we were not fond of each other because of conflicting interests. Plus, he felt like he had authority over the party when it wasn't even his own fucking place. He did have that "NO FUN ALLOWED" stigma to him.

It's a shame where I meet some of people haven't resulted in finding as many girls as I should have but I can always keep trying to look around. It's either I give up and not find anyone at all or I can look anywhere and meet anyone new that I think I can get along with. So yeah, meeting new people is always a gamble. You never know who you'll meet and while some of them will be rotten apples, there's always diamonds in the rough so it's always worth exploring.

I would imagine the internet could be a helpful tool in this pursuit.

It SHOULD be a helpful tool but sadly there's huge downfalls for using the internet to find a possible love partner. There's always those jackasses who'll pretend who they're not. Newgrounds is certainly not a good place to try and find someone you'll love. While there have been some successful relationships where both met on this site, that's really once in a blue moon and this site isn't really a source for finding someone. Maybe you can hang out at meets and get along with a lot of new people but to seek for a relationship, it's not the most ideal place.

I'll admit that the only forum I even post on nowadays is the NG BBS and even that's showing a decline of activity. Probably not so good on me when the only other forms of communication on the internet for me is the main social networks. Maybe I can wander around on the internet and see which places can interest me. It would be nice if I could rekindle my interest in the Metal-Archives forums. I can talk about metal a lot so why did I end up slipping away from there? There's a lot to consider so I'll tackle things one at a time.

Awesome, my level icon is quite angreh now, probably due to being penetrated with a staff..

42,000 b/p. *Waits patiently for Coop's next post*

My high water mark of b/p rank 108 is finally in sight, and these next few ranks are pretty tight together, too. :)

Level 46! I don't even know where to retire this alt considering lack of sword now.

The NG sword isn't a traditional one so it doesn't count.

You passed 82,000 B/P! Congrats!

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote:

At 3/19/13 04:48 PM, Haggard wrote: One hour journey means one extra hour of sleep while traveling to work, lol. I enjoy the extra nap time I can get in the morning and/or in the evening, when going back home.

On the bus journey to the school and back (only to see where it was), I did feel like my mind was asleep while I was on it. However, I can't let it be too sleepy, otherwise I'll miss my stop. I wasn't even sure which stop I needed to get off at and it turned out the one I thought I should get off at is the right one providing I do work at that school.

After a while your body just "knows" where to get off and you'll wake up from your doze automatically.

At least that helps me out to not go into another relationship so soon and still have some troubles with the previous events pressuring my mind.

Yeah, I guess it wouldn't be "fair" to the other person if you just use her to get your mind off of your previous relationship.

Lucky, they're only playing in Download. I'd much rather have their own big venues than festivals. I suppose my next chance will be whenever they record their next album and I think it'll be another two years until we hear another Maiden album and they say they only see themselves writing another record or two before they call it a day.

I could have seen them at the Wacken Open Air. But since this festival turned into one huge pile of dogshit I rather not spent any more money on that... not even for Maiden!

At 3/21/13 02:18 AM, BlueHippo wrote: Awesome, my level icon is quite angreh now, probably due to being penetrated with a staff..

Yes, the angreh staff is awesome. And very angreh!

I've been speaking to her yesterday. Although the text she sent me originally went to the wrong person, we were talking a bit and things are still fine with her as far as friendship goes. To be honest, while she's very difficult to understand on the inside, I'm at least happy for her to have taken the break up much better than the previous ones. There's been no Facebook meltdowns or anything and she still thinks of me a lot. As a matter of fact, speaking to her yesterday was the most fun I had with her in a few weeks.

Listening to:

King Diamond - Conspiracy

At 3/22/13 03:34 AM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: On the bus journey to the school and back (only to see where it was), I did feel like my mind was asleep while I was on it. However, I can't let it be too sleepy, otherwise I'll miss my stop. I wasn't even sure which stop I needed to get off at and it turned out the one I thought I should get off at is the right one providing I do work at that school.

After a while your body just "knows" where to get off and you'll wake up from your doze automatically.

True that. Rarely I miss a stop on my road when getting back home because my body is programmed too well when to get off.

At least that helps me out to not go into another relationship so soon and still have some troubles with the previous events pressuring my mind.

Yeah, I guess it wouldn't be "fair" to the other person if you just use her to get your mind off of your previous relationship.

And that's what kinda happened with her when she was with me considering how little time she gave herself between break ups and another relationship. She did admit that she still hadn't got over the last relationship so how she feels about the break up with me is not entirely clear but surely it's better handled this time.

Lucky, they're only playing in Download. I'd much rather have their own big venues than festivals. I suppose my next chance will be whenever they record their next album and I think it'll be another two years until we hear another Maiden album and they say they only see themselves writing another record or two before they call it a day.

I could have seen them at the Wacken Open Air. But since this festival turned into one huge pile of dogshit I rather not spent any more money on that... not even for Maiden!

That's the sad thing. It seems most of these festivals seem good at first but then they turn to shit after a while. This is why I much prefer standalone shows and never festivals.

Dammit, Bahamut, now you've got me doing it. x_x

Congratulations To

VJF: Brig. General
BlueHippo: level 51
Chrausner: Captain
Bahamut7: level 46
Pokemonpoeguygcn: 82,000 b/p

At 3/20/13 04:29 PM, Haggard wrote: Well, it counts the same way the PENTALIST does. :P
The Pentalist from before we had Art Reviews...

That's true, I had totally forgotten about Art reviews. (Probably because I don't have any.) ^^;

Yeah, it's a bit complicated with total stats, so I still rely on NGLogs to count it for me.

I suppose it would be, now that I consider the Art reviews. It'd just be your NGlog total + medals + Art reviews = total stats then? Hopefully byteslinger can get it updated at some point.

Well this sucks, seriously. When I think that I moved together with my gf after about 6 months... :P
Ok, we already where 23 and 22 respectively, and my mom more or less kicked me out (sounds more serious than it was ;) )

We were a few years younger -at that awkward time right after graduating high school. I think that's a big part of the reason why things didn't end up working out... Anyway, so did you end up getting married shortly after moving in together, or was it more recent?

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: Careful guys, this is a three-parter here.

Holy shit, dude. D:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: I was meant to comment on this before. Although I mentioned 140,000 total points the other day, I've already reached that a while back considering the inclusion of medals. Maybe we can have a discussion with byteslinger and see if medals can be counted for the combined total. At this point I find it to be acceptable so we should throw some thoughts around in the NG Log thread or something.

That would be nice, though it's not a huge deal for me to do some quick addition to find out my real total. I do hope she is able to get it done eventually, though, seeings how NGlog is already keeping track of user's medals/points.

That's why I'm wanting to get them out sooner than later. If my heart feels minimally hurt on a daily basis then I'm on the right track.

The memory will lose it's sting in time. Hopefully it wont haunt you for too long, seeing as you two weren't together over the long haul. I suppose you might be grateful for that, in retrospect.

Hahahaha, if only. What I obviously meant was that it's been a long time since we last needed multi posts for quotes. It was much easier when gfox was around but... you know. I've said to him myself during a recent PM that I no longer put pressure on him to start posting here again. I see him less and less for depositing and even on Steam so that's saying something. I last gave him a double PM to reply to everything and next time it might go across three or four messages, haha.

Yeah, I somehow didn't think it really was. :P It really is a damn shame gfox isn't around anymore, as we could really use someone like him around here to thicken up the conversation a bit. (Hell, even Coop's presence is beginning to be felt less and less around this thread. And if he stops posting congrats lists, I'm going to have to resort to congratsing myself. ;_;) Anyway, at least you are still in contact with him, and even on NG no less! Make sure you tell him Metal says hi and that he's updating your old Pentalist next time you talk to him. (He better remember me!) :P

Not the first time I've heard that lately. Exercising is something that I've put on my new years resolution and while it might be a generic one, it's one that would do a lot of good for me. Now if only I knew which friends go to the gym on a regular basis. I would have to make it somewhere that isn't over the water and thankfully I do have friends on this side so who knows. As a matter of fact, I was meant to be seeing if a friend of mine is still taking weekly trips to the swimming baths with his brother but I haven't heard anything about that since the start of the year. Mind you, I'm not fond of the local swimming baths with it being Birkenhead and all but it's always worth giving it a shot if I'm with someone I know.

I've been exercising now for almost a year and weight training for the last few months. I'd say it's made me a bit more outgoing, not to mention increased my energy substantially. I only wish I had access to a pool, as swimming is arguably the best total-body exercising you can do.
Anyway, I would recommend going for a swim as often as possible, it'll be good for both your physical and mental states.

And a best friend would not hide away their troubles if they are in need of help and they broadcast all sorts of shit on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc. They would be willing to listen out on what their partner says and not just throw things right back at them. If you try and make others feel better, you should take for granted that there are those who will do the same for you in return Those problems are why she didn't seem like a best friend to me in the end. I do feel a love partner should also be like their best friend in the sense that they would talk about common interests very often and be there to help each other.

I could see how frustrating that would be; her using social media as an outlet to problems that she should be discussing with you, in private. It seems like she wasn't taking things very seriously, in terms of trying to work through the issues she was having, that or just very confused.

Personally I don't want to think I have a single best friend as I have quite a diverse lifestyle. I'll hang out with people who play role-playing board games and card games (*cough*nerds*cough* XD), I'll be with those who I know from a local rock bar that I go to on occasions, I'm willing to see old friends going all the way back to secondary school, I have my rare chances to meet those from Newgrounds and then I have some, uhhhh, furries. Some of them may mix and match just fine but having something like furries going to said rock bar would probably cause a riot. :P

I can kind of relate to that. I highschool I hung out with a group of friends, some of which I did nerdy stuff with, others I played/talked sports and others music. But we were all friends with each other and hung out together as a group, nonetheless. (Probably because most of us went all the way back to grade school, before many of our interests developed.) And yeah, about the furries -you should keep them... quarantined; it might be best for everyone that way. ;P

HOWEVER, if there is someone who I can deem as a best friend, it's the one who's been seeing live shows with me on various occasions. Not to put everyone else down but it is hard to top someone who's been willing to see live shows with me because we both liked the band(s) we saw. It doesn't stop at music, though as we also have common interests in video games and TV, particularly with Red Dwarf and Doctor Who but I have a shit ton to watch before I'm even considered a hardcore fan of the latter.

To me a "best friend" is just the person who you feel most comfortable around/have the most in common with. Like if you were to go on a road trip for a week and you could only pick one friend, who would it be? :P While I hung out with a lot people in school, there was that one guy who was my best friend. Interestingly enough, we were both giant nerds, both of us being hardcore into DBZ and Pokemon (especially the former). We both drew DBZ fanart and played the card games and shit. (Oh, and not to mention were were both huge Nintendo fanboys.) Lots of good memories there, anyway. :)

As far as relationships go, I cannot and should not expect 100% common interests between the two.

That girl I was speaking of before and I were pretty damn close; one reason why I truly regretted that loss. :( Anyway, I'd think that over time you would start to adopt some of each other's interests, to some extent.

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: I have been hit and miss with people. From 2012's experiences, I've met a few people in Chester, one of them being a dragon fanatic like I am,

Good start there -and his opinion on metal is...? ;)

One guy and his girlfriend were hostile to us and we were not fond of each other because of conflicting interests. Plus, he felt like he had authority over the party when it wasn't even his own fucking place. He did have that "NO FUN ALLOWED" stigma to him.

Yeah, I remember you talking about him. I still say you guys should have jumped his ass. :D

It's a shame where I meet some of people haven't resulted in finding as many girls as I should have but I can always keep trying to look around. It's either I give up and not find anyone at all or I can look anywhere and meet anyone new that I think I can get along with. So yeah, meeting new people is always a gamble. You never know who you'll meet and while some of them will be rotten apples, there's always diamonds in the rough so it's always worth exploring.

Well, the way I see it is you're going to meet new people in life, whether you want to or not... (school, jobs, etc.) Though you can always do more on your own, as far as you know...that whole "socializing" thing. (lol) Anyway all you can really do is take the good with the bad, because, well, that's life! :P

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: It SHOULD be a helpful tool but sadly there's huge downfalls for using the internet to find a possible love partner.

I was referring more to finding social groups, like people who get together to go hiking, for example. Probably should have clarified that a little more.

Newgrounds is certainly not a good place to try and find someone you'll love.

Yeah, I wouldn't think NG would be all that great for finding a girl, for many reasons. 1. The guy/girl ratio is like 100:1. 2. Most are probably going to be under 18 3. Any girls on the BBS are going to be constantly harassed/pestered by horny teenage boys and probably not be interested in getting to know anyone from NG in that way. (though some seem to enjoy that kind of attention.) Anything else? Well, most people in the General Forum are freaking queer as springtime, if that counts. lol

While there have been some successful relationships where both met on this site, that's really once in a blue moon and this site isn't really a source for finding someone.

There's two couples that met here, right? I always thought that a really neat story.

Maybe you can hang out at meets and get along with a lot of new people but to seek for a relationship, it's not the most ideal place.

I'm pretty sure Gagsy loves you...Or is it only your plushies she's after? :x

I'll admit that the only forum I even post on nowadays is the NG BBS and even that's showing a decline of activity.

But you're never allowed to leave, you understand that, right? :P

At 3/21/13 03:51 PM, Bahamut7 wrote: Level 46! I don't even know where to retire this alt considering lack of sword now.

I don't know, a shark with a laser beam attached to its head seems pretty cool to me, albeit not nearly as cool as a sword. ;)

At 3/22/13 08:38 AM, Bahamut wrote: I've been speaking to her yesterday. Although the text she sent me originally went to the wrong person, we were talking a bit and things are still fine with her as far as friendship goes.

Glad to hear it! It must be a load off your chest to be able to speak together on friendly terms. :)

At 3/22/13 08:38 AM, Bahamut wrote: I've been speaking to her yesterday.

Very nice.

At 3/22/13 03:34 AM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: On the bus journey to the school and back (only to see where it was), I did feel like my mind was asleep while I was on it. However, I can't let it be too sleepy, otherwise I'll miss my stop. I wasn't even sure which stop I needed to get off at and it turned out the one I thought I should get off at is the right one providing I do work at that school.

After a while your body just "knows" where to get off and you'll wake up from your doze automatically.

True that. Rarely I miss a stop on my road when getting back home because my body is programmed too well when to get off.

On the other hand, a few months ago I didn't get off in time. But not because I was sleeping, but because I was reading. And the station I have to get off and the station before that look pretty similar. So I looked out of the window and thought I still have one station left... and then I realized my mistake. >_>

Lucky, they're only playing in Download. I'd much rather have their own big venues than festivals. I suppose my next chance will be whenever they record their next album and I think it'll be another two years until we hear another Maiden album and they say they only see themselves writing another record or two before they call it a day.

I could have seen them at the Wacken Open Air. But since this festival turned into one huge pile of dogshit I rather not spent any more money on that... not even for Maiden!

That's the sad thing. It seems most of these festivals seem good at first but then they turn to shit after a while. This is why I much prefer standalone shows and never festivals.

W:O:A would still be good (but overpriced) if the people who went there would actually care for the music. But it seems like that about 50% of the visitors are just there to "have a look at it" and don't know or see a single band or even listen to any metal at all. For them, the festival is just a reason to whoop it up.

At 3/22/13 03:28 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/20/13 04:29 PM, Haggard wrote: Well, it counts the same way the PENTALIST does. :P
The Pentalist from before we had Art Reviews...

That's true, I had totally forgotten about Art reviews. (Probably because I don't have any.) ^^;

I think I have about 150 of them. But I really should get my flash reviews to 1000. I'm really close. But I am "really close" for some time now. :(

Yeah, it's a bit complicated with total stats, so I still rely on NGLogs to count it for me.

I suppose it would be, now that I consider the Art reviews. It'd just be your NGlog total + medals + Art reviews = total stats then? Hopefully byteslinger can get it updated at some point.

Maybe "someone" should write her a message? :P

Well this sucks, seriously. When I think that I moved together with my gf after about 6 months... :P
Ok, we already where 23 and 22 respectively, and my mom more or less kicked me out (sounds more serious than it was ;) )

We were a few years younger -at that awkward time right after graduating high school. I think that's a big part of the reason why things didn't end up working out... Anyway, so did you end up getting married shortly after moving in together, or was it more recent?

I don't know. Is 7 years later "shortly after moving in together"? :P

Congratulations! You just destroyed someone else's hard work! This Flash has been blammed.

wow, haven't seen that in years

Coop considers that his luck is back to normal, while congratulating:
Jolly: 44,000 B/P
Bahamut: 31,000 Experience
Auz: 12,000 Posts
Haggard: 100,000 Total Points
VJF: Brigadier General
BlueHippo: Level 51
Chrausner: Captain
Metal-Therapy: 42,000 B/P
Bahamut7: Level 46
Pokemonpoeguygcn: 82,000 B/P

Listening to:
Foo Fighters - End Over End
House Of Pain - Jump Around
REO Speedwagon - Can't Fight This Feeling

Thank you to:
Metal-Therapy

At 3/17/13 02:38 PM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/16/13 10:04 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/10/13 01:40 PM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/9/13 07:25 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/5/13 04:14 PM, Haggard wrote: Don't you own an air mattress?

No, I sleep in a bed - why would I need one?

So, you take your bed with you when you go out camping? :P

You sound like my ex - She always wanted to go camping, I wanted to spend the night in a nice hotel.

Hotels are expensive and you miss the whole party.

I did my camping with the scouts, when I was a kid. I see nothing to be gained from it now that I'm half a lifetime removed from that.

At 3/17/13 06:56 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/16/13 12:57 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/16/13 10:04 AM, Coop wrote: I just hope that I'm elsewhere if and when it does...

Just make sure you're positioned BEHIND him, you know, to avoid any unwanted surprises in the night.

You want to be gay with him so much, you share the bed with him >:(

I hate to rain on your parade, but there's not going to be any gay love going on with either one of you.

Don't knock it until you've tried it :3

At 3/17/13 11:24 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/17/13 06:56 AM, Coop wrote: You want to be gay with him so much, you share the bed with him >:(

How about we all just have a slumber party and talk about stats all night. It doesn't have to be about who wants to be gay with who. XD

*who wants to be gay with whom. There is never a time to allow your grammar to slip!

Well, last season's breakdown went like this:

Sunday - lost every match, except a friendly. I was captain.
Wednesday - finished mid-table, runner up in the senior cup, winners of the invitation plate.
Saturday - Won the league (1st XI); Runner up in the league (2nd XI).

I was scorer for the most part on the Saturday team. I did play two games and took a couple of wickets.

Sounds like you did pretty well, overall. Good luck this year! Out of curiosity, is there any video of you playing on YouTube, or something? I'd be curious to see it.

There are a couple of videos of us celebrating after winning. From 2011 2012 and hopefully one for next season ;)

At 3/18/13 09:58 AM, Bahamut wrote:

At 3/16/13 10:04 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/9/13 07:39 PM, Bahamut wrote: I've been able to see her today. Although things may be getting more and more intense right now, we were able to enjoy seeing each other. Plenty of hugs were given so we're still close to each other. I've spoken to a few friends today and they feel that I have done what I can to help her out but perhaps I shouldn't pressure myself to respond to her to every little thing she says on Twitter, Facebook, etc. However, for now it's a matter of giving her space and give her time to recover which I have agreed to do starting from earlier this week.

Try not to rush in. You can seem over the top and clingy if you do.

Well I tried to give her time but nothing was made any easier for us.

Just take your time, the right one is out there.

At 3/18/13 11:45 AM, Auz wrote:

At 3/18/13 09:58 AM, Bahamut wrote:

At 3/17/13 06:49 PM, Auz wrote:

As a result of getting 30k posts, though, I now have FOUR stats with 30k+ and I'm the first of that kind to do that. It'll be ages before you even see anyone else with four 30k stats

Coop is about the only likely other candidate to reach that anywhere within the next few years.

And my posting has fallen off a cliff of late.

At 3/23/13 03:35 PM, jonthomson wrote: Congratulations! You just destroyed someone else's hard work! This Flash has been blammed.

wow, haven't seen that in years

Great feeling, isn't it?

At 3/22/13 04:52 PM, Haggard wrote: I think I have about 150 of them. But I really should get my flash reviews to 1000. I'm really close. But I am "really close" for some time now. :(

Did you end up making it onto the top 100 list before or after Auz consolidated all the reviews together? I remember you had yet to make it on, back when I was still updating that list.

Maybe "someone" should write her a message? :P

I just felt someone nudge my arm all the way from Germany? 0.o

I don't know. Is 7 years later "shortly after moving in together"? :P

So you must have gotten married fairly recently, then. If I weren't notoriously inconsistent with my activity here on NG, I probably would have known this already. :\

At 3/23/13 03:35 PM, jonthomson wrote: Congratulations! You just destroyed someone else's hard work! This Flash has been blammed.

wow, haven't seen that in years

Good, that means I got a blam today. -___-

At 3/23/13 04:02 PM, Coop wrote: Don't knock it until you've tried it :3

haha see, Haggard, that's what I meant about playing along. ;)

*who wants to be gay with whom. There is never a time to allow your grammar to slip!

*Classic collective bored classroom response* : Yes, Mr. Coop...

There are a couple of videos of us celebrating after winning. From 2011 2012 and hopefully one for next season ;)

Are you the one filming in those videos? It's kind of hard to make out the faces at times; I can't clearly see someone who appears to be you. :(

Thank You

Coop

At 3/23/13 06:08 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/23/13 04:02 PM, Coop wrote: Don't knock it until you've tried it :3

haha see, Haggard, that's what I meant about playing along. ;)

For the record, that's just what I am doing as well ;)

*who wants to be gay with whom. There is never a time to allow your grammar to slip!

*Classic collective bored classroom response* : Yes, Mr. Coop...

Is that gum you're chewing? In the bin with it!

There are a couple of videos of us celebrating after winning. From 2011 2012 and hopefully one for next season ;)

Are you the one filming in those videos? It's kind of hard to make out the faces at times; I can't clearly see someone who appears to be you. :(

Yeah, I was the one with the camera, hence why the quality was so poor. Perhaps if I can get a girlfriend who is willing to attend a game or two, she will get some action shots of me in the middle, or even some video footage. We shall see.

150,000 Saves :)

62,000 B/P!
Top 50 in B/P!

>:(

At 3/23/13 04:02 PM, Coop wrote: Haggard: 100,000 Total Points

Thanks.

At 3/17/13 02:38 PM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/16/13 10:04 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/10/13 01:40 PM, Haggard wrote: So, you take your bed with you when you go out camping? :P

You sound like my ex - She always wanted to go camping, I wanted to spend the night in a nice hotel.

Hotels are expensive and you miss the whole party.

I did my camping with the scouts, when I was a kid. I see nothing to be gained from it now that I'm half a lifetime removed from that.

Comparing camping as a scout with camping at a festival camping ground... it's like comparing watching porn to having sex with a real person. It's just not the same. ;)

At 3/17/13 06:56 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/16/13 12:57 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/16/13 10:04 AM, Coop wrote: I just hope that I'm elsewhere if and when it does...

Just make sure you're positioned BEHIND him, you know, to avoid any unwanted surprises in the night.

You want to be gay with him so much, you share the bed with him >:(

I hate to rain on your parade, but there's not going to be any gay love going on with either one of you.

Don't knock it until you've tried it :3

Some things you just don't have to try out. :P

At 3/23/13 06:08 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/22/13 04:52 PM, Haggard wrote: I think I have about 150 of them. But I really should get my flash reviews to 1000. I'm really close. But I am "really close" for some time now. :(

Did you end up making it onto the top 100 list before or after Auz consolidated all the reviews together? I remember you had yet to make it on, back when I was still updating that list.

Maybe "someone" should write her a message? :P

I just felt someone nudge my arm all the way from Germany? 0.o

"Looks like he *puts on sunglasses* reached out!"

I don't know. Is 7 years later "shortly after moving in together"? :P

So you must have gotten married fairly recently, then. If I weren't notoriously inconsistent with my activity here on NG, I probably would have known this already. :\

Since 11.03.2011... oh wait, wrong date format. For you, it should be 3/11/2011. ;)

At 3/23/13 04:02 PM, Coop wrote: Don't knock it until you've tried it :3

haha see, Haggard, that's what I meant about playing along. ;)

Who says I wasn't? I could have played the role of the secretly gay, but not admitting it for anything in the world-guy. ;)

Also: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTN6Du3MCgI

At 3/24/13 07:21 AM, Coop wrote:

At 3/23/13 06:08 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/23/13 04:02 PM, Coop wrote: Don't knock it until you've tried it :3

haha see, Haggard, that's what I meant about playing along. ;)

For the record, that's just what I am doing as well ;)

Yeah, that's what they all are claiming to do... :P

30,000 saves. First post on page 3,000?

Congratulations To

Haggard: Top 50 b/p'er, 62,000 b/p
DiMono: Supreme Commander in saves
Toocool100: 150,000 saves -damn 0.0

It only took me 4 1/2 months, but I've finally regained my highest-ever b/p rank. Nothing for it now but to press on into uncharted waters and to the top 100!

At 3/24/13 07:21 AM, Coop wrote: For the record, that's just what I am doing as well ;)

Oh, I know, you silly. You don't need to explain. ;)

Is that gum you're chewing? In the bin with it!

Aw, come on! Well, at least my mouth is free to prep some spitballs now. >:)

Yeah, I was the one with the camera, hence why the quality was so poor. Perhaps if I can get a girlfriend who is willing to attend a game or two, she will get some action shots of me in the middle, or even some video footage. We shall see.

I'll be honest, I was kinda hoping you'd be the crazy guy spraying the champagne everywhere. (Though I know your likeness well enough to know it wasn't at first glance.)

At 3/24/13 12:44 PM, Haggard wrote: "Looks like he *puts on sunglasses* reached out!"

I'd say! Reached out and around! :P

Since 11.03.2011... oh wait, wrong date format. For you, it should be 3/11/2011. ;)

Yeah, thanks for clarifying, as I read that as November 3rd, 2011, out of habit. I MEAN WHO WOULD GET MARRIED IN NOVEMBER?? JEEZ. :P

Who says I wasn't? I could have played the role of the secretly gay, but not admitting it for anything in the world-guy. ;)

Yeah, but that's so boring. We need you to be FABULOUS!

Also: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTN6Du3MCgI

There ya go. That sexy Lincoln was a beast, benching 55 lbs. :O

At 3/24/13 01:54 PM, DiMono wrote: First post on page 3,000?

Not quite. ;P

As if my week couldn't have been shit enough. We all know my relationship problems but life thought it wasn't enough so the next thing to happen was getting screwed over with the job just because of references not getting back to the agency in time. The last thing to happen, well, I just so happened to have taken the wrong fucking train tickets with me and I missed out on the London trip as a result. While I'll have saved a bit of money by not going and will get refunded for the train tickets, I could have done with going to the live show to see Gojira and Ghost on stage just to see something. Instead, I did see some friends today but in the evening I got a headache from my cousin. He may be very young but my patience has its limits, particularly at this time. The week ahead better treat me well.

Sorry for the four-parter guys.

Listening to:

Too much. This took me forever.

Thanks to:

Metal-Therapy
Coop

At 3/22/13 03:28 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote: Dammit, Bahamut, now you've got me doing it. x_x

Well would ya look at that? Let's see if I make you do it again!

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: I was meant to comment on this before. Although I mentioned 140,000 total points the other day, I've already reached that a while back considering the inclusion of medals. Maybe we can have a discussion with byteslinger and see if medals can be counted for the combined total. At this point I find it to be acceptable so we should throw some thoughts around in the NG Log thread or something.

That would be nice, though it's not a huge deal for me to do some quick addition to find out my real total. I do hope she is able to get it done eventually, though, seeings how NGlog is already keeping track of user's medals/points.

Eh, it's nice to have it more accurate.

That's why I'm wanting to get them out sooner than later. If my heart feels minimally hurt on a daily basis then I'm on the right track.

The memory will lose it's sting in time. Hopefully it wont haunt you for too long, seeing as you two weren't together over the long haul. I suppose you might be grateful for that, in retrospect.

Let's see what I can do from now until Thursday. My sister will be here for the Easter weekend so I'll see if I can get all my worst feelings out from now until then. I've been feeling really depressed all day. The various unfortunate events don't help me at all but I am trying to fight through this difficult time. I'll admit that perhaps I was a little too overconfident with some of the things I've been saying here. I want to be positive for a change but it's just not easy to keep it up all the time. I guess additional shit happening just doesn't make it any easier for me. I'm sure if I did get the work trial as promised and went to the live show, I'd be in a better mood right now.

Hahahaha, if only. What I obviously meant was that it's been a long time since we last needed multi posts for quotes. It was much easier when gfox was around but... you know. I've said to him myself during a recent PM that I no longer put pressure on him to start posting here again. I see him less and less for depositing and even on Steam so that's saying something. I last gave him a double PM to reply to everything and next time it might go across three or four messages, haha.

Yeah, I somehow didn't think it really was. :P It really is a damn shame gfox isn't around anymore, as we could really use someone like him around here to thicken up the conversation a bit. (Hell, even Coop's presence is beginning to be felt less and less around this thread. And if he stops posting congrats lists, I'm going to have to resort to congratsing myself. ;_;) Anyway, at least you are still in contact with him, and even on NG no less! Make sure you tell him Metal says hi and that he's updating your old Pentalist next time you talk to him. (He better remember me!) :P

Yeah, I'm surprised I could even reach him at all that way. I just knew that if you're going to deposit at least half of the time, you WILL notice new PMs in your inbox. He must have took a good half hour at least just to reply to me so it's great that we're still in contact. As for the whole LUL activity, you are damn right about that. It's hard to even post here on a daily basis now which is a damn shame. This place has been like my internet home but I guess times are changing. Anyway, I'll make sure I note you on the next PM I send to him. I'll give him the necessary time to respond to my latest messages.

Not the first time I've heard that lately. Exercising is something that I've put on my new years resolution and while it might be a generic one, it's one that would do a lot of good for me. Now if only I knew which friends go to the gym on a regular basis. I would have to make it somewhere that isn't over the water and thankfully I do have friends on this side so who knows. As a matter of fact, I was meant to be seeing if a friend of mine is still taking weekly trips to the swimming baths with his brother but I haven't heard anything about that since the start of the year. Mind you, I'm not fond of the local swimming baths with it being Birkenhead and all but it's always worth giving it a shot if I'm with someone I know.

I've been exercising now for almost a year and weight training for the last few months. I'd say it's made me a bit more outgoing, not to mention increased my energy substantially. I only wish I had access to a pool, as swimming is arguably the best total-body exercising you can do.
Anyway, I would recommend going for a swim as often as possible, it'll be good for both your physical and mental states.

I got back to said friend and he said that the plans are fallen since his brother felt it wasn't getting him to lose some weight. Looks like no plans for regular swimming now. I did it so often a decade back when I went there with my aunt on a weekly basis. Then things drifted away and we weren't up for it anymore. Back then and even now I feel swimming is one of the more fun forms of exercise. It's always a blast when you can swim with friends and if you can give your body some exercise in the process, it's a win-win situation!

Whatever people I know do for regular exercises, I should ask on Facebook sometime soon and see what goes on. Maybe one will do just work outs at the gym but anything should be good. Well, perhaps not everything as I won't jump into one sport for an activity due to potential risks with some of them. I suppose if there was one sport to do it would be tennis... *remembers his own name* Goddammit Andy!

At 3/22/13 03:28 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: And a best friend would not hide away their troubles if they are in need of help and they broadcast all sorts of shit on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc. They would be willing to listen out on what their partner says and not just throw things right back at them. If you try and make others feel better, you should take for granted that there are those who will do the same for you in return Those problems are why she didn't seem like a best friend to me in the end. I do feel a love partner should also be like their best friend in the sense that they would talk about common interests very often and be there to help each other.

I could see how frustrating that would be; her using social media as an outlet to problems that she should be discussing with you, in private. It seems like she wasn't taking things very seriously, in terms of trying to work through the issues she was having, that or just very confused.

One did say to me that she probably wasn't in for a serious relationship. If that's the case, I just wonder how she managed to stay with one guy for 18 months. Maybe sometime last year things started to change for her and she's not been the self that she should be. I suppose I'm not much better when I use Newgrounds to talk about what's been going on between me and her but at least I'm not using this place to vent out on my own mental issues which some have done in the past and got themselves in an ugly situation as a result. I won't name and shame but some may remember an incident or two.

At least I never showed her this site. I felt from the very start when I knew she was a sensitive individual and bringing her to the BBS would only lead to misery. You know, despite how much I've spent on here, I've not mentioned Newgrounds to many friends in the outside world. Only my friends going back to secondary high school and the other odd one or two know of my presence here. One could argue that I should try and get more to this site but I feel some things that are on the internet are best kept there. And besides, most I know seem to be more into 4chan so it won't work out all that well for them.

Personally I don't want to think I have a single best friend as I have quite a diverse lifestyle. I'll hang out with people who play role-playing board games and card games (*cough*nerds*cough* XD), I'll be with those who I know from a local rock bar that I go to on occasions, I'm willing to see old friends going all the way back to secondary school, I have my rare chances to meet those from Newgrounds and then I have some, uhhhh, furries. Some of them may mix and match just fine but having something like furries going to said rock bar would probably cause a riot. :P

I can kind of relate to that. I highschool I hung out with a group of friends, some of which I did nerdy stuff with, others I played/talked sports and others music. But we were all friends with each other and hung out together as a group, nonetheless. (Probably because most of us went all the way back to grade school, before many of our interests developed.) And yeah, about the furries -you should keep them... quarantined; it might be best for everyone that way. ;P

Well, I am being very careful with the furries I'm getting acquainted with that are beyond my local friends. While I can understand their fetishes can be seen as odd to many (I have to draw the line somewhere for their porn), I don't see what's so bad about the fursuiting aspect. They can actually look adorable when you see them in person and to me, it's not much different than those dressing up as various Disney characters in the theme parks. That said, there's some red zones from the fandom that I cannot tolerate at all, babyfurs being the best example... I just don't understand them at all and it can't be a sign of a sane person. You can certainly quarantine them. :)

HOWEVER, if there is someone who I can deem as a best friend, it's the one who's been seeing live shows with me on various occasions. Not to put everyone else down but it is hard to top someone who's been willing to see live shows with me because we both liked the band(s) we saw. It doesn't stop at music, though as we also have common interests in video games and TV, particularly with Red Dwarf and Doctor Who but I have a shit ton to watch before I'm even considered a hardcore fan of the latter.

To me a "best friend" is just the person who you feel most comfortable around/have the most in common with. Like if you were to go on a road trip for a week and you could only pick one friend, who would it be? :P While I hung out with a lot people in school, there was that one guy who was my best friend. Interestingly enough, we were both giant nerds, both of us being hardcore into DBZ and Pokemon (especially the former). We both drew DBZ fanart and played the card games and shit. (Oh, and not to mention were were both huge Nintendo fanboys.) Lots of good memories there, anyway. :)

Well, I can't judge you over DBZ for anything at all. If I play Yugioh then what right do I have? :P

Lame-ass confirmed!

As far as relationships go, I cannot and should not expect 100% common interests between the two.

That girl I was speaking of before and I were pretty damn close; one reason why I truly regretted that loss. :( Anyway, I'd think that over time you would start to adopt some of each other's interests, to some extent.

Yeah, I was willing to listen to her on all her interests. She does expertise in dancing and I've never been much of a dancer all my life, unless headbanging and pushing shit around in moshpits counts for something, haha. I don't know how much heavy metal she knew but she's good to know Burzum, Diablo Swing Orchestra and even Sunn 0))). Only a fan of DSO here but Sunn 0))) aren't the most accessible metal band to get into. Infact, she knew that I liked Helloween a lot and when she drew a picture of my dragon character, she did put a Helloween T-shirt on me and that put a huge smile on my face. :D

Still, there was still a ton more we could have explored together. Maybe since we're still on best friends status despite the break up, I can still show her a lot from metal.

At 3/22/13 03:31 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: I have been hit and miss with people. From 2012's experiences, I've met a few people in Chester, one of them being a dragon fanatic like I am,

Good start there -and his opinion on metal is...? ;)

He's not so much on music in general but he knows I like my metal a lot. Still a cool guy for sure. Keep in mind that I do have a fair amount of friends who aren't as big into heavy metal as myself, one friend and my sister are. There's different interests but we're still all cool together.

One guy and his girlfriend were hostile to us and we were not fond of each other because of conflicting interests. Plus, he felt like he had authority over the party when it wasn't even his own fucking place. He did have that "NO FUN ALLOWED" stigma to him.

Yeah, I remember you talking about him. I still say you guys should have jumped his ass. :D

We shouldn't be seeing him again. I think the host will know to be more careful with mixing friends from different places (again, see above about my whole knowing people from five different parts of my life). While she did hold a party for one's birthday last week, there was unfortunately an argument with one of her roommates over it that night. I feel bad for her since I'm sure she enjoys us all and doesn't want things to go sour for the night. I wouldn't blame her if she doesn't host another party like this again if it only keeps giving her hassle from others.

At 3/22/13 03:31 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: It's a shame where I meet some of people haven't resulted in finding as many girls as I should have but I can always keep trying to look around. It's either I give up and not find anyone at all or I can look anywhere and meet anyone new that I think I can get along with. So yeah, meeting new people is always a gamble. You never know who you'll meet and while some of them will be rotten apples, there's always diamonds in the rough so it's always worth exploring.

Well, the way I see it is you're going to meet new people in life, whether you want to or not... (school, jobs, etc.) Though you can always do more on your own, as far as you know...that whole "socializing" thing. (lol) Anyway all you can really do is take the good with the bad, because, well, that's life! :P

It's no doubt that schools are generally the first place where you meet new people that you will always remember or even friends. Maybe others don't have fonder memories of primary school (or elementary school for the Americans) as I did. I was in a class of 8/9 and we were always together. It was a really sad time when they all moved onto secondary school while two of us were a year behind. The academic year between myself and those who I knew was always the worst part of school for me. When they all left for the next part of their lives, I was stuck behind. Some of them I've not been able to ever see since they all left so who knows where some of them are now?

It was worse in secondary school considering all that hell I had to go through. Every single fucking day there I was always afraid of being bullied and generally it happened. The teachers and support staff never did a single goddamn thing to help me and some of them only made it worse for me. By the last year of school I was just ready to get myself expelled and fight those who would attempt to screw around with me. I did have a few fights as a result but it never got me into huge trouble, surprisingly enough. Again, the most crucial part of my life and I could have thrown it all away but the exam results I got were all passable and within the highest grades I could possibly get.

Even though I did have a hellish time, I can easily agree that at least it didn't turn to catastrophic events like attempting to burn the school down and having myself stuck in an asylum for a few years (*cough*Sirtom*cough*) and while I did see a psychiatrist a few times and even had someone else to see me once a week for the last two years of school life (because the support staff were shit at doing their jobs to help someone with Asperger's Syndrome), I was nowhere near the point of what my ex has to go through just to try and help out with her mental issues.

However, even if I may have not had the worst time imagineable at school, how the situation was handled was still inexcusable for them. Even to this day I still hate them all and would rather not see them anywhere in sight and if they did try to approach me, I won't mind being openly honest about my own feelings and tell them to FUCK OFF! Thankfully I've only ever bumped into those useless shits once or twice since leaving school so my unfortunate encounters are at least extremely rare. Then again, maybe they have spotted me in town somewhere a few times but either they knew to keep their distance away from me or listening to music on my iPod makes it piss easy to ignore them, possibly both.

Sadly, I've had the misfortune to see the former headteacher of said school when the family was out for my nan's 75th birthday at a restaurant in December. I was looking forward to the evening and everything but then came her, my mood died entirely. I immediately headed to the bar and got myself a drink. My dad tried to ask me if I remembered her and I told him that I didn't have fond memories at the school at all and he spoke against me for it. That alone really killed my mood and it didn't help when further on the night my dad decided to poke fun at me for various things so I was damn close to storming out the restaurant and heading back home. I didn't want to ruin my nan's 75th birthday but some people in the family should know fucking better by accepting that I didn't have an enjoyable time in secondary school at all.

And even if this shit happened seven years ago, there is still that one that I still despise a lot for what she did to me one day. Due to computer issues, I was under stress one day and wasn't able to do a lot of work so she called me in and told me off and she should have fucking known better that she should have dealt with someone with a mental disability a lot better than that. I tend to not excuse myself with saying "Oh I have Aspergers" but when it comes to a pupil in a school and you treat them badly despite knowing what stresses they have, you're a sick fuck and I hope karma hit you hard somewhere down the road!

Whoooa, I guess I said a lot about school there but I suppose if I start looking back at things, I'm gonna go on a train of thought. I apologise if you actually read through all of that but I suppose it helps to explore the mind. Hell, I'd be amazed if anyone else actually read all of this. Now if only I was more able to find out what went wrong with my ex instead of just taking vague reasons, it could have worked out better now. I only wish I could just grab a Psycho-portal, dive into her mind and fought all those demons myself.

Awesome points rewarded if you got the reference just then.

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: It SHOULD be a helpful tool but sadly there's huge downfalls for using the internet to find a possible love partner.

I was referring more to finding social groups, like people who get together to go hiking, for example. Probably should have clarified that a little more.

Yeah, I knew what you were saying and should have took it more that way than how I approached it. Ah well, it's been giving me thoughts so it's helping in one way. That said, I am thinking to myself on where I should be going for online socialising.

At 3/22/13 03:31 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

At 3/20/13 10:31 PM, Bahamut wrote: Newgrounds is certainly not a good place to try and find someone you'll love.

Yeah, I wouldn't think NG would be all that great for finding a girl, for many reasons. 1. The guy/girl ratio is like 100:1. 2. Most are probably going to be under 18 3. Any girls on the BBS are going to be constantly harassed/pestered by horny teenage boys and probably not be interested in getting to know anyone from NG in that way. (though some seem to enjoy that kind of attention.) Anything else? Well, most people in the General Forum are freaking queer as springtime, if that counts. lol

I can't help but feel that I possibly have some of the worst interests in terms of trying to find a girl who shares things in common with me. Newgrounds certainly has a horrible gender ratio and it was even proven on a questionnaire the NG staff wanted users to fill in. It may not be the most accurate form but it does show. Plus, half of the "female" users are likely to be bullshitting about their gender so make the ratio even more unbalanced. I don't want to think it that way but let's face it, this is fucking Newgrounds we're talking about.

And I tend to feel bad for the women that feel they are harassed/pestered by males. I'm not talking about here but rather anywhere on the internet. The internet should be bringing people closer but you've got jackasses ruining it for everyone, thus making a search to find someone online tougher than it already is. I'm not saying the internet should be the main/only place to try and date someone but it can be a tool to find someone who's right for you if done right. My sister met her partner on World of Warcraft and they've been engaged for 3 1/2 years now so good things do come out of meeting people online. Still, caution is always advised but I knew before attending the NG meets, it was reliable since not only would bad incidents spread on the site, I knew some individuals on Stickam chat back in the day and the use of webcam is one way to know you could potentially meet someone.

I mostly feel the right one for me is possibly somewhere on the internet. I've given the dump I live in many chances to find the one but my results have been bleak for the most part. I may have had her for a few weeks and she does live within a close-ish range but when I look at where I go and hardly get any luck, then perhaps I can find the one to love somewhere online. Not sure where exactly on the internet, though but it's a long road I possibly need to search in.

While there have been some successful relationships where both met on this site, that's really once in a blue moon and this site isn't really a source for finding someone.

There's two couples that met here, right? I always thought that a really neat story.

I won't list them down but I do know a few on here.

Maybe you can hang out at meets and get along with a lot of new people but to seek for a relationship, it's not the most ideal place.

I'm pretty sure Gagsy loves you...Or is it only your plushies she's after? :x

Nah, it's all about the plushies.

I'll admit that the only forum I even post on nowadays is the NG BBS and even that's showing a decline of activity.

But you're never allowed to leave, you understand that, right? :P

Ehhhhhhhh....

At 3/21/13 03:51 PM, Bahamut7 wrote: Level 46! I don't even know where to retire this alt considering lack of sword now.

I don't know, a shark with a laser beam attached to its head seems pretty cool to me, albeit not nearly as cool as a sword. ;)

Hmm, the daily alts thing is something I still need to think whether I want to keep it going or not.

At 3/22/13 08:38 AM, Bahamut wrote: I've been speaking to her yesterday. Although the text she sent me originally went to the wrong person, we were talking a bit and things are still fine with her as far as friendship goes.

Glad to hear it! It must be a load off your chest to be able to speak together on friendly terms. :)

It sure has been. She even made a random tweet tonight to say that I'm awesome and I appreciated that compliment a lot. Now if only she could start accepting all the compliments that I gave/give to her. We're still on speaking terms over there and even on text so that's a good thing. I did like how she said she likes that she can share her favourite activity with me (that being listening to a CD that she has). Maybe a relationship won't happen with her now but at least there are ways that I can still make her happy.

At 3/22/13 04:52 PM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/22/13 08:38 AM, Bahamut wrote: True that. Rarely I miss a stop on my road when getting back home because my body is programmed too well when to get off.

On the other hand, a few months ago I didn't get off in time. But not because I was sleeping, but because I was reading. And the station I have to get off and the station before that look pretty similar. So I looked out of the window and thought I still have one station left... and then I realized my mistake. >_>

I think the story with my dad one Christmas was funny. He was so drunk he fell asleep on a bus and by the time he woke up, the bus already went through a whole circuit and asked the driver if the bus had even started.

That's the sad thing. It seems most of these festivals seem good at first but then they turn to shit after a while. This is why I much prefer standalone shows and never festivals.

W:O:A would still be good (but overpriced) if the people who went there would actually care for the music. But it seems like that about 50% of the visitors are just there to "have a look at it" and don't know or see a single band or even listen to any metal at all. For them, the festival is just a reason to whoop it up.

Heh, and if I went it would be because the lineup was damn good enough to travel all the way there.

At 3/23/13 04:02 PM, Coop wrote:

At 3/18/13 09:58 AM, Bahamut wrote: Well I tried to give her time but nothing was made any easier for us.

Just take your time, the right one is out there.

Yeah, I like to be sure of that. It will be quite a puzzle to figure out who and where, though but I can't just sit there and do nothing.

At 3/24/13 08:51 PM, Metal-Therapy wrote: Haggard: Top 50 b/p'er, 62,000 b/p

Thanks!

At 3/24/13 12:44 PM, Haggard wrote: "Looks like he *puts on sunglasses* reached out!"

I'd say! Reached out and around! :P

"I bet you're the kind of guy that would fuck a person in the ass and not even have the goddamn common courtesy to give him a reach-around."

Since 11.03.2011... oh wait, wrong date format. For you, it should be 3/11/2011. ;)

Yeah, thanks for clarifying, as I read that as November 3rd, 2011, out of habit. I MEAN WHO WOULD GET MARRIED IN NOVEMBER?? JEEZ. :P

Yeah, that would be very silly indeed. :P

Who says I wasn't? I could have played the role of the secretly gay, but not admitting it for anything in the world-guy. ;)

Yeah, but that's so boring. We need you to be FABULOUS!

I will never be as fabulous as this guy.

At 3/24/13 10:27 PM, Bahamut wrote:

At 3/22/13 04:52 PM, Haggard wrote:

At 3/22/13 08:38 AM, Bahamut wrote: True that. Rarely I miss a stop on my road when getting back home because my body is programmed too well when to get off.

On the other hand, a few months ago I didn't get off in time. But not because I was sleeping, but because I was reading. And the station I have to get off and the station before that look pretty similar. So I looked out of the window and thought I still have one station left... and then I realized my mistake. >_>

I think the story with my dad one Christmas was funny. He was so drunk he fell asleep on a bus and by the time he woke up, the bus already went through a whole circuit and asked the driver if the bus had even started.

Nice one.
A friend told me this once:
He wanted to go home, but he lived in a very hard to reach area. He started his journey and went to the central station first. There is a bus that travels from Central Station through his area and finishes in Bergedorf (that's where I live ^^). But it was still a one hour wait until the bus even started. So he took the train to Bergedorf, just to do something. He then got off in Bergedorf and took the bus to Central Station. But he fell asleep... and when he woke up, he was at the central station again. ^^
The funny thing is, his first thought was: "I FINALLY made it to Central Station!" and then a few moments later: "Wait... I already have been here... NOOOOOOOO!" XD

That's the sad thing. It seems most of these festivals seem good at first but then they turn to shit after a while. This is why I much prefer standalone shows and never festivals.

W:O:A would still be good (but overpriced) if the people who went there would actually care for the music. But it seems like that about 50% of the visitors are just there to "have a look at it" and don't know or see a single band or even listen to any metal at all. For them, the festival is just a reason to whoop it up.

Heh, and if I went it would be because the lineup was damn good enough to travel all the way there.

Well, there are the regular visitors from Sweden and Norway. Sometimes people come all the way from Japan or Australia. So a guy from the UK wouldn't be that rare. ^^

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At 3/24/13 10:27 PM, Bahamut wrote: As if my week couldn't have been shit enough. We all know my relationship problems but life thought it wasn't enough so the next thing to happen was getting screwed over with the job just because of references not getting back to the agency in time. The last thing to happen, well, I just so happened to have taken the wrong fucking train tickets with me and I missed out on the London trip as a result.

Jeez, as if you need any more BS right now. There's not much I can do through the internet, but just let me say that I'm feeling for ya right now. Well, I suppose all I can do is reply to this post of yours. ;)

While I'll have saved a bit of money by not going and will get refunded for the train tickets, I could have done with going to the live show to see Gojira and Ghost on stage just to see something.

I'd take some of that money and buy yourself something you've had your eye on. At least a case of Guiness or something. ;)

Instead, I did see some friends today but in the evening I got a headache from my cousin. He may be very young but my patience has its limits, particularly at this time. The week ahead better treat me well.

Cool you at least got to hang with friends. And you already know my opinion on kids, so I wont go there. ^^

Sorry for the four-parter guys.

You've been going to some shit lately; if talking about it here helps you vent, then by all means go for it.

Listening to:

Too much. This took me forever.

A four-parter isn't to be taken lightly! :P

Well would ya look at that? Let's see if I make you do it again!

Yup. :)

Eh, it's nice to have it more accurate.

I sent byteslinger a PM today and she sounded optimistic about it. Now we wait...

I'll admit that perhaps I was a little too overconfident with some of the things I've been saying here.

It's an easy trap to fall into, when you're feeling the effects of a new relationship (especially your first one). That's why I was kinda cautioning you against making any drastic decisions before letting things play out for a while, though I'm sure it's nothing you needed telling. Any advice I thought of giving you at the time seemed really obvious, yet people tend not to think with their heads when they really should be sometimes, you know?

Yeah, I'm surprised I could even reach him at all that way. I just knew that if you're going to deposit at least half of the time, you WILL notice new PMs in your inbox.

Is he still depositing? I had just assumed he left NG totally. (Though I did see gfoxcook, gfox and gfoxclock on the recent logs on NGlog not too long ago. Needless to say that was a surprise.

He must have took a good half hour at least just to reply to me so it's great that we're still in contact. As for the whole LUL activity, you are damn right about that. It's hard to even post here on a daily basis now which is a damn shame. This place has been like my internet home but I guess times are changing.

It was a real shocker to me when I first came back to the site. Of course I start getting involved in the conversation when things are at their lowest point ever around this thread. -__- But I suppose if I wasn't here it would just be you and Haggard chatting with a little Coop sprinkled on top. :P Odyssic leaving was really what made it seem like a ghost town around here to me, even though he didn't partake in discussion much (at least not since I returned.) *sigh* well, at least there are still users coming here with rank-ups and milestones. This has got to be the greatest thread in NG history; over 12 years old and coming up on it's 3,000th page, no less. Pretty amazing when you think about it.

Anyway, I'll make sure I note you on the next PM I send to him. I'll give him the necessary time to respond to my latest messages.

Cool, thanks.

Back then and even now I feel swimming is one of the more fun forms of exercise. It's always a blast when you can swim with friends and if you can give your body some exercise in the process, it's a win-win situation!

Definitely, and it works everything, all at once, too. I can honestly say that I've never been so damn hungry as I am after a good long swim. I guess these days I'll just have to settle for hiking, which is something I plan on doing a lot this summer. I've found a site that shows all the major peaks in my area; I'm going to try to climb 2 a month -lets see how that goes. (And no, I don't live in the Rockies or anything; the mountains around my area are pretty tame in comparison.) lol

Whatever people I know do for regular exercises, I should ask on Facebook sometime soon and see what goes on. Maybe one will do just work outs at the gym but anything should be good.

I would highly recommend weight training -it just makes you feel good, especially when you first start, as you gain strength quickly at first. I'll tell ya, there's nothing quite like reaching a goal and knowing that you're stronger than you were just a couple weeks ago. If you've got a place to go, give it a try and stick with it.

Well, perhaps not everything as I won't jump into one sport for an activity due to potential risks with some of them. I suppose if there was one sport to do it would be tennis... *remembers his own name* Goddammit Andy!

I was actually talking to an old NG friend today about (playing) tennis. It's one of those sports that I've always wanted to try, but never did (mainly due to not having proper equipment.) Racquetball is another similar sport that looks really fun. Anyway, the only sport that I've played as an adult is badminton, which I am actually pretty damn good at. (I'm not ashamed to admit it, dammit!) lol

I suppose I'm not much better when I use Newgrounds to talk about what's been going on between me and her but at least I'm not using this place to vent out on my own mental issues which some have done in the past and got themselves in an ugly situation as a result. I won't name and shame but some may remember an incident or two.

Yeah, but the social media is different, though. When you're venting in a place like that, people you know are going to see it and it really makes public things that should be kept between you two. I think that's a little different than chatting with some guy who has never met any of the people involved and lives on another continent entirely. :P

At least I never showed her this site. I felt from the very start when I knew she was a sensitive individual and bringing her to the BBS would only lead to misery.

Understandable. Sometimes I think I wouldn't wish the General forum on anybody.

You know, despite how much I've spent on here, I've not mentioned Newgrounds to many friends in the outside world. Only my friends going back to secondary high school and the other odd one or two know of my presence here. One could argue that I should try and get more to this site but I feel some things that are on the internet are best kept there.

It's been largely the same for me, really, though I can't tell you how many of my friends I had tried to get into NG, but none ever took to it. I always thought how awesome it would be to see your RL buddy listed on the wall of users browsing the BBS, or to say "dude, did you see that fucked up thread last night?" when meeting at school the next day. Of course this was all years ago, mind you, when I was a young and impressionable noob. Now almost 9 years later I'm just an old, jaded noob. :P

Well, I am being very careful with the furries I'm getting acquainted with that are beyond my local friends. While I can understand their fetishes can be seen as odd to many (I have to draw the line somewhere for their porn), I don't see what's so bad about the fursuiting aspect. They can actually look adorable when you see them in person and to me, it's not much different than those dressing up as various Disney characters in the theme parks. That said, there's some red zones from the fandom that I cannot tolerate at all,

I can stomach furries better than bronies. All I can think of is that My Little Pony was a show that was around when I was a kid. It was meant for little girls. I swear, if I, at the age of 8, walked into class wearing a MLP t-shirt, I would have gotten my ass kicked by my classmates for being a fucking pansy. Now it's okay for teenage boys to be obsessed over this shit. I just don't get it. :\ DAMN TEH INTERWEBZ.

babyfurs being the best example... I just don't understand them at all and it can't be a sign of a sane person. You can certainly quarantine them. :)

Don't even want to know.

Well, I can't judge you over DBZ for anything at all. If I play Yugioh then what right do I have? :P

Come on, man. I was 13, sitting 3 inches away from the screen, watching as Goku turns Super Sayian for the first time. IT WAS GOOSEBUMP-RAISING EPIC! I, as recently as last year watched the whole DBZ series from start to finish; it was cool, but not nearly as epic as it seemed when I was a kid. :(

Lame-ass confirmed!

Just nerdy, and there's nothing wrong with that. :D

Yeah, I was willing to listen to her on all her interests. She does expertise in dancing and I've never been much of a dancer all my life, unless headbanging and pushing shit around in moshpits counts for something, haha.

LOL

I don't know how much heavy metal she knew but she's good to know Burzum, Diablo Swing Orchestra and even Sunn 0))). Only a fan of DSO here but Sunn 0))) aren't the most accessible metal band to get into. Infact, she knew that I liked Helloween a lot and when she drew a picture of my dragon character, she did put a Helloween T-shirt on me and that put a huge smile on my face. :D

She probably knows more metal than I do! Now, if you're talking anything from the rock/metal spectrum from 1970 to 2000, then I might stand more of a chance.

Still, there was still a ton more we could have explored together. Maybe since we're still on best friends status despite the break up, I can still show her a lot from metal.

Definitely, if you guys are still able to maintain a friendship after a falling out, that's awesome. I actually envy that.

He's not so much on music in general but he knows I like my metal a lot. Still a cool guy for sure. Keep in mind that I do have a fair amount of friends who aren't as big into heavy metal as myself, one friend and my sister are. There's different interests but we're still all cool together.

I remember hanging out with a bunch of Spanish dudes at my last job. We had nothing in common, save that we all did same job, yet we still had a great time, talking about...well, nothing in particular. lol And now I know how to call someone a faggot in Spanish! :D

there was unfortunately an argument with one of her roommates over it that night.

Roommates always seemed like a prickly subject to me, though I have thankfully been able to avoid any thus far. I could even see good friends getting on each other's nerves when faced with each other day in and day out like that. (Then again, I could also see how parties would get on one's nerves as well, if you're not a part of it.) :P

It was a really sad time when they all moved onto secondary school while two of us were a year behind. The academic year between myself and those who I knew was always the worst part of school for me. When they all left for the next part of their lives, I was stuck behind. Some of them I've not been able to ever see since they all left so who knows where some of them are now?

Wow, that is kind of a sad story. You were so young then, it would be probably more than a little awkward to try and find some of these people now...

It was worse in secondary school considering all that hell I had to go through. Every single fucking day there I was always afraid of being bullied and generally it happened. The teachers and support staff never did a single goddamn thing to help me and some of them only made it worse for me. By the last year of school I was just ready to get myself expelled and fight those who would attempt to screw around with me. I did have a few fights as a result but it never got me into huge trouble, surprisingly enough. Again, the most crucial part of my life and I could have thrown it all away but the exam results I got were all passable and within the highest grades I could possibly get.

Ugh, I do know what it's like to get picked on, though my situation in high school wasn't quite as bad as what you described. I remember my best friend and I were always hanging out, you know, attached at the hip, and there were a couple dumbasses who apparently had nothing better to do than ask if we were "gay" all the time and to spread rumors and shit. (Yet neither of us ever did anything to foster such an idea -we were just unfortunate enough to be chosen for their stupid game, apparently.) I laugh about it, now that it's so far removed, though. Kids can be so damn immature; I just can't believe that I actually let it bother me at the time.

Even though I did have a hellish time, I can easily agree that at least it didn't turn to catastrophic events like attempting to burn the school down and having myself stuck in an asylum for a few years (*cough*Sirtom*cough*)

Yeah, I think a little more highly of you than that. How does a dragon buy petrol, anyway? Oh wait, dragon doesn't NEED petrol. lol

However, even if I may have not had the worst time imagineable at school, how the situation was handled was still inexcusable for them. Even to this day I still hate them all and would rather not see them anywhere in sight and if they did try to approach me, I won't mind being openly honest about my own feelings and tell them to FUCK OFF!

I remember you saying you'd never want to work at your old school before. After reading this post I can understand why. :(

My dad tried to ask me if I remembered her and I told him that I didn't have fond memories at the school at all and he spoke against me for it. That alone really killed my mood and it didn't help when further on the night my dad decided to poke fun at me for various things so I was damn close to storming out the restaurant and heading back home.

Wow, what a bullshit way for your dad to act, especially at a family occasion like that. At least you were man enough to stick it out -I probably would have told him off and walked out.

And even if this shit happened seven years ago, there is still that one that I still despise a lot for what she did to me one day. Due to computer issues, I was under stress one day and wasn't able to do a lot of work so she called me in and told me off and she should have fucking known better that she should have dealt with someone with a mental disability a lot better than that. I tend to not excuse myself with saying "Oh I have Aspergers" but when it comes to a pupil in a school and you treat them badly despite knowing what stresses they have, you're a sick fuck and I hope karma hit you hard somewhere down the road!

:'( I can't even fathom talking to somebody like that, and to a kid no less. Maybe she'll get hit by a train, or maybe one of them double decker buses you got over there? :x

Whoooa, I guess I said a lot about school there but I suppose if I start looking back at things, I'm gonna go on a train of thought. I apologise if you actually read through all of that but I suppose it helps to explore the mind. Hell, I'd be amazed if anyone else actually read all of this.

I'm still here. ;P

Now if only I was more able to find out what went wrong with my ex instead of just taking vague reasons, it could have worked out better now. I only wish I could just grab a Psycho-portal, dive into her mind and fought all those demons myself.

I know I said as much at least once before, but I hope you guys stay friends! That means something, seriously.

Awesome points rewarded if you got the reference just then.

I'm not nearly so awesome. :(

Yeah, I knew what you were saying and should have took it more that way than how I approached it. Ah well, it's been giving me thoughts so it's helping in one way. That said, I am thinking to myself on where I should be going for online socialising.

That's a good question. I've been thinking about trying to hook up with some people to go hiking with this summer. Ought to be an interesting endeavor. :\

I can't help but feel that I possibly have some of the worst interests in terms of trying to find a girl who shares things in common with me. Newgrounds certainly has a horrible gender ratio and it was even proven on a questionnaire the NG staff wanted users to fill in.

I seem to remember that, vaguely. That was quite a few years back, right? (Keep in mind that I think '08 users are noobs still.) lol

It may not be the most accurate form but it does show. Plus, half of the "female" users are likely to be bullshitting about their gender so make the ratio even more unbalanced. I don't want to think it that way but let's face it, this is fucking Newgrounds we're talking about.

I'd consider finding a girl here on NG and actually hooking up with her IRL nothing short of a miracle. That's why I think it so amazing that that's actually happened here, more than once.

My sister met her partner on World of Warcraft and they've been engaged for 3 1/2 years now so good things do come out of meeting people online.

Ha, maybe I should start playing World of Warcraft? :P It's just neat to meet somebody by chance in the digital world like that, like not on a dating site. I wish it would happen to me, dammit! (I've met some great people here, one of which I may actually meet someday, as we both live in the same state. Unfortunately, there's a dick between his legs.) SO CLOSE! lmao

I won't list them down but I do know a few on here.

Well there's two that I know of, anyway. ;)

Nah, it's all about the plushies.

Draw her in with the plushies, maybe she'll come to love the dragon in time. XP

Ehhhhhhhh....

Sorry, I didn't mean that to come of in that way. NG AND THE WI/HT FORUM (especially) WOULD NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT BAHAMUT. :O

Hmm, the daily alts thing is something I still need to think whether I want to keep it going or not.

I could never deposit for alts the way you always have. (Hell, I can't even deposit for my main account.) I'd say pick an exp. milestone and retire them there -hell, level icons come and go with the redesigns, so it's not like that's a permanent solution.

It sure has been. She even made a random tweet tonight to say that I'm awesome and I appreciated that compliment a lot.

woot!

Now if only she could start accepting all the compliments that I gave/give to her. We're still on speaking terms over there and even on text so that's a good thing. I did like how she said she likes that she can share her favourite activity with me (that being listening to a CD that she has). Maybe a relationship won't happen with her now but at least there are ways that I can still make her happy.

From what I've heard, you've handled the whole situation like a real man, when it would have been so easy to just get angry and lash out, or act like a total jerk. Give yourself props for that. :)

At 3/25/13 01:28 PM, Haggard wrote: "I bet you're the kind of guy that would fuck a person in the ass and not even have the goddamn common courtesy to give him a reach-around."

I'm not a moviegoer, so you gotta be careful with those quotes, as many of them will soar right over my head. *Had to Google it to find out what movie it was from and wouldn't have been slightly taken aback, if it weren't in quotations* lol

And yeah, pretty much. :P

Yeah, that would be very silly indeed. :P

Well, we've got Thanksgiving in November, so you could get married, then spend your wedding night passed out on the couch in front of the tv in a tryptophan-induced coma. Sounds romantic, right?

I will never be as fabulous as this guy.

But Haggard, you ARE that guy! D:

At 3/26/13 01:32 AM, Metal-Therapy wrote:

over 12 years old and coming up on it's 3,000th page, no less.

Okay, more like 10 1/2 years old. Sorry, very tired ATM. :P Please forgive any other mistakes in those posts.

Also congrats to Tony-DarkGrave for level 39. Forgot you, sorry. :(

Total voting power now exceeds 9.