At 9/13/20 01:08 PM, Gagsy wrote:I drifted for a bit but now find myself back as the ole loneliness kicks in again. I honestly thought I quenched it.
I spent years posting on Reddit and Facebook, and ramped it up even more with Twitter. Twitter then got me involved with another smaller community, not dissimilar to what this place was like back in the 00s, except for with more British people in, and more left-leaning.
Then, not too long ago (less than a month ago), someone on Reddit argued with me about something relating to my freelance business, and took it upon themselves to dox me. They put my Reddit username into Twitter, and somehow related my Twitter account to my real name, and then found my business Facebook page. They made comments mentioning my dead dad, as I'd put on Twitter how it was two years since his passing and how I missed him, and my son, 11 months old, who was on my freelancer business page. This was all under the implicit threat that they were going to try to ruin my business - they said I was a scammer (I'm not and their reasoning was bullshit).
So I realised the best thing to do to protect my family was to nuke my Twitter account and my Reddit account. Both of which I'd had for many years and had used like a journal, kinda like what I did with Newgrounds.
I was regularly posting on Twitter at the time but I've not got back on that wagon since. I've got a new Reddit account but I'm not using it often, either. I've decided to come back to these smaller forums. So that whole doxing has led to me visiting NG every day again.
Really, this is the most foolish site to use if I'm afraid of doxing, though. It's bad enough someone threatening to share some shit I put on Reddit as an adult with my business associates. But some garbage I wrote as a teenage edgelord here? I hardly even recognise teenage me as being the same person. I said loads of things here that I would distance myself from. NG is the biggest embarrassing repository I could imagine, if someone was a nefarious actor. Maybe I could sign up with a fresh account here, too.....