At 12/10/07 12:25 AM, AllMightyBruce wrote:At 12/9/07 11:40 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: in my expirience, it's easier to get a girl into metal than looking for a metal girl. all you need is a hot, open-minded girl and you're set.Same could be said for anal.
Yeah boiiiiiii, nice one!
*fist bump*
At 12/10/07 10:23 AM, ShitOnAStick wrote: but they the one girl i know like that is also a smoking hot gal.
I ARE GOOD AT SPEAKING ENGLISH GRAMMAR.
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
At 12/10/07 11:01 AM, ShitOnAStick wrote:
Come meet us in Montreal then.
BOOOO CANADA. U R USA's BITCH.
Just kidding.
BTW, You misspelled GRAMMER. :p
At 12/10/07 08:00 AM, Goatchrist wrote:At 12/10/07 07:24 AM, Kronik-The-Echidna wrote: Did Agathodaimom seell out or something?Yeah, I guess you could call it that. "Chapter III" had some really good songs on it, but "Serpents Embrace" sounds like Cradle of Filth meets a groove metal band.
:O now that you put it that way...
This signature makes use of various clichés and/or 'emotional' lyrics/quotes, hopefully it makes me appear deep.
Anyone seeing Zeppelin?
Also, the track list for singstar PS3 sucks. There is not a single metal song there.
At 12/10/07 03:05 AM, PolishMatt wrote: I want to join.
I listen to..
Christ.
Go listen to some Cryptopsy, please.
At 12/10/07 02:23 PM, Centurion-Ryan wrote: Anyone seeing Zeppelin?
Also, the track list for singstar PS3 sucks. There is not a single metal song there.
Singstar, nuff said. The heaviest band I've seen in SS is either Wolfmother or MCR.
Also, smc316 said he wanted me to ask you guys what CDs to get for Christmas.
At 12/10/07 10:23 AM, ShitOnAStick wrote: New girlfriend!?
Whooo! WHEN! What?
Maybe if you called me once in a while you'd find out. >=(
When are you coming to visit anyways? Then we can drink non ghetto beer.
We were going to come for thanksgiving but that didn't work out. I don't know when we're going to be out east again. Soon hopefully.
At 12/10/07 07:13 PM, Nev wrote: Speaking of girlfriends... mine just finished me.
As in dumped you? Explain.
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
At 12/10/07 07:20 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote:At 12/10/07 07:13 PM, Nev wrote: Speaking of girlfriends... mine just finished me.As in dumped you? Explain.
Yes, dumped.
Well, she couldn't handle the stress of being in a long distance relationship.
At 12/10/07 07:25 PM, Nev wrote:
Yes, dumped.
Well, she couldn't handle the stress of being in a long distance relationship.
Hrm. There has to be a deeper reason. that is totally a mask. If she really loved you, it'd be hard, and ya, its can be stressful, but someone really into the relationship or inlove wouldnt let it all go down the drain for that reason.
I may sound like a bitch putting this idea out there, but I think she might have just gotten bored/fell out of love/ or something to the effect.
I mean, you dont just dump the person cause its stressful. You love someone, you figure shit out.
</coldhearted>
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
Speaking of girlfriends, i haven't had one in a year and a half.
At 12/10/07 07:31 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote: I may sound like a bitch putting this idea out there, but I think she might have just gotten bored/fell out of love/ or something to the effect.
You are right.
She said, she loves me... but is not in love with me... and that I shouldn't ask when she fell out of love with me because she can't remember.
Good analysis.
We're still friends and stuff, but fuck this isn't going to be easy.
At 12/10/07 07:31 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote: I mean, you dont just dump the person cause its stressful. You love someone, you figure shit out.
This is truth. My current g/f and I entertained a semi-long distance (an hour away to two-and-a-half hours away) for almost two years. We now go to college together.
Not to make you feel any worse, but she's (SOAS because I can't remember your name) right.
Going to see Ministry instead of Iron Maiden, I decided. Woo WOOOO.
At 12/10/07 07:35 PM, Nev wrote:At 12/10/07 07:31 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote: I may sound like a bitch putting this idea out there, but I think she might have just gotten bored/fell out of love/ or something to the effect.You are right.
She said, she loves me... but is not in love with me... and that I shouldn't ask when she fell out of love with me because she can't remember.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. The brain is only suppose to mature around mid-later 20s. It has a great deal in a person changing a lot and drastically over the years, which, in result, leave people very fickle, especially in teenage-hood. It takes a long time for a ton of people to remotely understand what they want out of anything, life, a partner, career, school etc... I must have changed my career choice at least 7 times before i even got to college, and still had to change plans. And huge differences. I completely stopped dating at 16 because I knew that I had absolutely no clue what I wanted and didnt want to drag anyone down with me in that.
People take it too personal sometimes, and too much drama gets created over it. It's a shame it happens, but people just have to remember not to get killed and bummed by it, and just try to roll with alot of that crap.
It's good you guys can still be friends, and it WILL be awkward for a while, maybe a long while, depending on your feelings still. My current best friend, and I mean, a TRUE best friend, was someone i had dramatic interests with, ended up not talking to each other for probably half a year until I felt it was completely done and under the rug.
I hope you guys can find a bond like that.
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
At 12/10/07 07:35 PM, D3NTATUS wrote: Speaking of girlfriends, i haven't had one in a year and a half.
We all know why...
Queer.
;]
At 12/10/07 07:42 PM, kylexthexpostman wrote: We all know why...
Queer.;]
touch my cock please
also what sam said is absolutely true in pretty much every regard
Speaking of girlfriends, I never had a SERIOUS one yet.
Which may be why I'm kind of messed up right now
And just like that....he was gone...
At 12/10/07 09:25 PM, 0peth wrote: Speaking of girlfriends, I never had a SERIOUS one yet.
Which may be why I'm kind of messed up right now
Arent you like 13? You're too young for serious relationships. Whats with everyones rush these days? I think I MIGHT have seen *one or two* serious relationship around that age when I was in highschool.
and by 'serious' i mean for that age at most.
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
At 12/10/07 09:35 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote:At 12/10/07 09:25 PM, 0peth wrote: Speaking of girlfriends, I never had a SERIOUS one yet.Arent you like 13?
Which may be why I'm kind of messed up right now
14 now.
You're too young for serious relationships.
Oh ya, I agree, it's more the constant loneliness.
Whats with everyones rush these days? I think I MIGHT have seen *one or two* serious relationship around that age when I was in highschool.
I don't know, I think it's the guys and girls faults for lying about relationships and sex to seem cool, really.
And just like that....he was gone...
At 12/10/07 09:25 PM, 0peth wrote: Speaking of girlfriends, I never had a SERIOUS one yet.
oh man same deal here. my longest relationship was 3 weeks, all we did was i kissed her on the cheek once. i didn't like her, she was fat.
hahahaha
At 12/10/07 09:39 PM, D3NTATUS wrote:At 12/10/07 09:25 PM, 0peth wrote: Speaking of girlfriends, I never had a SERIOUS one yet.oh man same deal here. my longest relationship was 3 weeks, all we did was i kissed her on the cheek once. i didn't like her, she was fat.
hahahaha
Eh?
Was that a joke?
And just like that....he was gone...
At 12/10/07 09:40 PM, 0peth wrote: Was that a joke?
was what a joke, my statement, or the relationship itself?
either way, no. i seriously went out with a fat chick that liked me. i was really just desperate and i wanted a girlfriend. about five minutes after i asked her out i realized my mistake, and i should've ended it right there. but i didn't, and waited three weeks.
so I go to a ear,nose and throut docter today...
He sprays this shit in my nose and sticks this long tube in my nose felt like kinky nose sex he might as well of POPPED THE GIANT ZIT THINGY THEY FOUND IN MY CAVITY FROM X RAYS!!. It's on my left side of my face right about my teeth I got it due to a sinis infection and it's just full of puss that he states: it may be sterile.
So I don't need surgery YET!
But eventally I will.
At 12/10/07 09:37 PM, 0peth wrote:
You're too young for serious relationships.Oh ya, I agree, it's more the constant loneliness.
Honestly, i think this is societys view embedded into people. Like, if you dont end up in a house with a picked white fence with a stable spouse, a few kids, and a great career, you didnt make yourself up to what you could have.
I think this falls under a lot of influence of past religions with huge family orientations and marriages. A lot of huge parts of life in the past have a great influence on our way of modern thinking and a lot of these things can be found especially in relationships.
People are doomed to be losers if they dont have success in relationships, when in reality, you dont need in any way another person to make them happy in the least.
Look at so many alternate life styles. Swingers is a good example. Finding a balance in their sexual beliefs separated from their beliefs of what love is. But it's taboo. But why? There is no real reason besides the influence that religion insisted on monogamous relationships to raise many children. There is no proof that humans are even monogamous. We proved no way naturally that we desire one partner for all of life, but we deem ourselves as failures if marriages fail for 10 year relationship get boring and fail.
We had to practice and exercise our ways to keep them stable, but why?
Society needs to stop pressing that you need great sex all the time and the perfect other in order to be happy, fulfilled, and well..Not lonely. I was single majority of my life and never regretted it. I never seeked relationships. This one just happened and I cant say and will not say this IS the love of my life and I will be with him forever. Who can make such promises. He makes me happy now, I make him happy now, it should be that basic.
Before him, I was happy.
Some people feel so pressured they just skip relationship to relationship, regardless how dumb it is, to fill a void that needs no filling. if you wanna be truely happy, fuck this pressured ideal crap. When you can be fulfilled and unlonely in your own ways with your own friends and own hobbies, or whatever, i'd only pursue a relationship then, or you're just asking to compromise yourself.
Your loneliness is your perspective alone. Not majorities. You got to ask yourself why you feel lonely just because you aren't with someone, and understand that that mindframe can easily be twisted to not feeling lonely for those reasons. Cause honestly, not everyone wants to feel protected, or nurtured, and most importantly, you don't need a GIRLFRIEND to get those things. But its impedded only that person can truly fill you an those needs., when the only person who could understand those things, is yourself and only you.
I gotta stop ranting. D:
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
At 12/10/07 09:51 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote:
Your loneliness is your perspective alone.
I meant in general, because maybe if I fooled around w/ some girl I would not be alone this long. Being alone is cool for like, 6 months, but for how long this has been going on...
Seriously, my house is empty and I don't see anyone anymore.
I'm totally isolated and alone.
And just like that....he was gone...
In other words, it wasn't pressured, and I have always had the same view as you, the idea was much more for my own selfish participation.
And just like that....he was gone...
At 12/10/07 09:57 PM, 0peth wrote:At 12/10/07 09:51 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote:Your loneliness is your perspective alone.I meant in general, because maybe if I fooled around w/ some girl I would not be alone this long. Being alone is cool for like, 6 months, but for how long this has been going on...
Seriously, my house is empty and I don't see anyone anymore.
I'm totally isolated and alone.
depends on a lot of things. great degrees of alone time can be extremely constructive and effecient too. it can be a huge asset and positive thing. It really depends on how you perceive it and what you do with it.
But its also understandable as a younger person to feel the need for entertainment and social interactivity. Personally as a child, I was a loner until I was about 15 or 16. I had great social skills, but I never felt the need to apply them. And a lot of times, I regretted becoming too social. I was happier before being nerdy smart, reading and constantly drawing alone at home or at the park or studying.
I felt i lost a lot of credibility after.
So it depends on your priorities, but you can't insta burn 'loneliness'. It's just a word for a feeling, not for an actual event. You can be surrounded by people and be as lonely as a person with no social life, and a hermit could be more fulfilled than a person with a great social life.
RoseSOAS: you should know i dont think this far ahead
Me made simple: well you already thought as far as holding a chicken while in your underwear
At 12/10/07 09:51 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote: I gotta stop ranting. D:
And just when i thought the metal hell was starting to get a bit dumber.
As far as I can tell, most people fall under the groups of "fine with being single" and "not being fine with being single." i, and apparently zach, fall under the second. I really can't tell you why I feel this way, and I definitely can't tell you why he feels this way (we don't have a telepathic bond, after all). But the thing is, is that even back when i was like in sixth grade i wanted someone to "love" or "like" or whatever you'd like to call it. And I still do. I feel unsatisfied without physical affection. Hook-ups wouldn't do it (lolpun) for me, because i desire passion and emotion with the actions. I also want to spend time with someone I'm romantically involved with. Don't get me wrong, i really like having friends to hang out, but it's sort of weird to just invite just a friend over to watch a movie and snuggle with. I can think of one person in the world i would feel comfortable with doing that with, and she's my best friend (not to mention i've had a crush on her for a while.) i'm going to stop now, i'm ranting
THE POINTS I WANTED TO CONVEY BUT CANT:
1.PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT AND REQUIRE DIFFERENT THINGS IN LIFE/LOVE/WHATEVER
2.YOUR STATEMENT ABOUT SOCIETIES PRESSURE ON MONOGAMY AND LOVE AND SHIT IS TOTALLY TRUE, AND I'VE ALWAYS FELT THE SAME WAY (EVEN THOUGH I'M A MONOGAMIST MYSELF)
3.UH COCKS
4.I'M JEALOUS THAT YOU CAN BE FINE WITH BEING SINGLE
sweet i'm going to go listen to some einsturzende neubauten before i ramble even more
