At 2/1/25 07:11 PM, HeroPapaya wrote:A much better approach imo would be educating children about the possible dangers on the net and possible courses of actions should they encounter them. Schools, parents, school nurses, social workers, mentors and every common website should provide and have information at hand about possible dangers, and easy to understand and easy to follow instructions on how to act if you encounter predatory interactions. I'm not educated on the subject but it's seems like it's a pretty common thing for some to try to prey on innocent minds.
idk, these are just some random assorted thoughts I've had; there could be some value to mentioning it. It feels like grooming wasn't invented when I was a kid on the internet. Looking back at it now it feels like it was utopian.
I wish I could say I turned out alright despite having interacted with adult content as a kid but that would be a big fucking lie. Yet, there's no way to scientifically prove that me being messed up is a direct consequence of me interacting with adult content specifically.
Overall I'm sceptical about mature content really being that harmful to children. Watching madness combat was a bonding activity for me and my friends as kids. (We were about 10 years old. Happy tree friends was fun too.) altf4 animated The Ultimate Showdown when he was 14.
Believe it or not, it used to be a thing, even some schools would teach you the dos and don'ts of online interactions, including things like "don't upload your real name or any information that could link back to you", "don't click dubious links and be suspicious of things sent to you", "if you see something bad, tell your parents/teacher/an adult", etc...
Social medias (and Google + Facebook in particular) threw that notion away and encouraged displaying your real identity for data gathering, and it reached a point where not only people are unable to not share their private infos with strangers online, it became the norm.
And so we reach that point where we're trying to fix the symptoms of the problem rather than the cause, by adding restrictions demanding you to make accounts, post an ID, display your real data, etc... I'm sure you can see where this is going and how it's gonna end.