At 3/15/23 03:04 PM, decampo wrote:At 3/15/23 01:25 PM, EdyKel wrote:At 3/15/23 12:24 PM, decampo wrote:At 3/15/23 04:35 AM, TurkeyOnAStick wrote:At 3/15/23 02:03 AM, decampo wrote:Well here's my take on this: Empowerment means to give power to someone or something. Thus empowering women means to give power to women. The question is, empowering them over whom? Because we're not comparing women to batteries, nukes, or stars, we're comparing them to men in this context, thus it's implying to socially empower women over men.
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This whole feminism argument looks like a deconstruction of the word “empowerment”.
How are men being de-powered?
There’s surely more to women’s rights than slapping.
For your first question, depends on what time we're talking, men were empowered for a very long while. For your second question, of course there is more, but the slapping shows you how the Media (Social Engineers) want you to think.
I don't think you quite understand.... You brought up the early 1900's as a time when men had power, even though that was a time when woman started to earn the right to vote, work outside the home, and be seen as more than property in the eyes of the law who only purpose was to produce babies and support men - and a lot of media was also starting to support women rights. These days, it's about continuing to break the glass ceiling, get equal pay for their work, have more control over their bodies, while certain portions of the media (right-wing conservatism) are screaming about how all of this is de-powering men.
Well, to be honest with you, think of it this way: Historically, the rulers/ controllers wanted to be powerful and control people, they made soldiers out of men, and servants out of women (aside from actual slaves that they had, different topic). They didn't need scholars who tell them how to run things, so they ran things with their stupid hunks of soldiers, physical strength ruled (men were dominant). They ensured lack of education and savagery to keep control of the population. What did they give these men in return, well a personal servant/ slave for work and sex, a woman (in Skyrim terms: a Lydia) and money (which is a different control tool, but a different topic). But women throughout history were clever enough to use sex as a tool to control men (soldiers and kings alike), I mean would queens exist if women had no power? It would be the king and his concubines, you know it would. Women raised children while men were at war, they molded the future for both young men and women, while men served their rulers. Religions/ law helped getting men to settle down with a woman and raise their children, in a world dominated by savage men, to create cities and nations (otherwise it would be a Conan the Barbarian setting filled with murder, theft, rape, and fatherless bastards). So ever since religion was created (which was better for women than what they previously had, also better for rulers since now it's not tribes but nations which they controlled), men did the heavy lifting while women did the man-tenance (see what I did there). In machinery times (1800s) Physical strength was not required anymore (Slavery was abolished in America for this reason), the machines did most of the heavy lifting, that's why they even started to hire women and children to work in factories. So the idea of women wanting to work, serve in the military (guns beat swords, no need for endurance and strength, just a decent sniper rifle), etc. comes from the rich industry-controllers wanting and allowing more people to work for them (it's good for the rich). As for women feeling that men are smothering them, it's an early trend (earlier than you believe, 1800s or so, allowed to exist by the controllers, otherwise it would've been curbed, they would've called it witchcraft or something). So women started to seek their independence from men (why be an assistant character when you can be your own protagonist?). Women can do exactly what men can (in modern times) so why should they be in second position? So women want equal pay (I think they should get it), they want to join the military...well, I don't see why anyone would, aside from benefits and GI bill (Takes us back to money and how the monetary system is set up and wage slaves, different topic for a different discussion). So in short, women aren't trying to be men, they are trying to prove that they don't need men, that they can be independent from men (Physically in this day and age, it's very possible. But mentally and emotionally, well we need each other, i's a human thing).
That's some wall of text...
Let me simplify it for you. There is no such thing as true equality in this world, no matter how hard people try for it. Someone will always be better off, and have certain advantages over others. That is just a fact of life. And you will always have people complaining about it. It's the perpetual story of the "haves" and "have nots". All people can realistically expect is that their lives can improve in some way, if they are not distracted by petty shit.
Through the ages, those who have power and wealth, have often used an array of tactics to distract people from their discontent towards them, with religion, nationalism, to culture, by making people feel culturally, or morally, superior, over others, gaining, or cementing, their power, while giving little in return other than that superficial sense of superiority.
It also doesn't change the fact that some are legitimately worse off than others, simply based off of not fitting an image in that dominate culture that controls the power and wealth in a country, while those in that majority group will do all they can to create barriers, and an uneven playing field, to keep their control over that wealth and power.
If the average person were serious about improving their lives, and those like them, in some tangible way, they would stop being distracted by the culture war against woman, and minorities, and hold those in government, and in the corporate world, more responsible for not improving everyone's lives.