Okay...
1) Your inbox gets inundated because your name is sitting RIGHT next to the thread, dude. I'm more or less in charge of the Vampire Empire, but I'm more than willing to bet that over half of the people who want to join have a message in Gamehippy's inbox. Most people just see the title, go "Oh, I want to join," and message the thread starter instead of actually reading.
2) The name is misspelled for a reason. Either misspell it properly, or don't say it at all. :P
3) Do NOT, EVER, tell me what I know.
As to Wonko...
4) Dude, you should really reword that, the way it is now sounds like you're STILL in charge of everything.