More Of A Brother...wtf!!

[ZenGaijin]

Now I don't know how many of you this applies to but I have heard this statement far too many times. But I had this convo for the last time yesterday.

Good Friend Female: There are just no good black men left.
Zen: ......What did you just say?
GFF: All the fine black men are in relationships you have to break one up to get one.

Now I don't know about you but this is the reason women don't rule the world. They will cut the throat of whomever they feel they need to too enter a decent relationship. So anyway I get all pissed and respond.

Zen: ugh, What do you think I am?
GFF: Your different
Zen: How so? (here it comes fellas)
GFF: Your like... um.... more of a brother
Zen: AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

The convo basically ended 20 seconds later after I told her how blind she was. Its seems to me the thing that works the best with these "women" is this. Become conceited with how great of a guy you are. If you look at the convo above and go "Oh shit that’s me" then listen up. Women love nothing more than attention so with that being said approach a new girl be yourself and as soon as she seems interested distance yourself from her.

I know it works because I had my brother do it on a girl he recently met. There getting along great so she’s in his car and continues to play some R&B song over and over and over while staring at him while has not looking but she knows he can see her looking at him. Now his response to this is perfect.

*Song play time after time*
Him: Wow you must really like this song.
Her: (Theres no way he could be that dumb maybe hes not interested in me? OMG I must try harder.)

This brings me to another thing women believe they are being super clear with there signals so to them throwing themselves at you might be that whole looking at you when your not looking thing. In girl world this "game" = I want you but this is not how we see it this is how your direct with us.

Guy: So I hope you've had a good time tonight?
Girl: Yeah I did, wanna fuck?
Guy: Why yes, yes I would

Now that is direct. So ladies my question to you is WTF do you do this to the guys you claim to want so bad? The guy you claim to want so bad is also the guy you been neglecting for quite some time now.
Now I don't know how many of you this applies to but I have heard this statement far to many times. But I had this convo for the last time yesturday.

Good Friend Female: There are just no good black men left.
Zen: ......What did you just say?
GFF: All the fine black men are in relationships you have to break one up to get one.

Now I don't know about you but this is the reason women don't rule the world. They will cut the throat of whomever they feel they need to too enter a decent relationship. So anyway I get all pissed and respond.

Zen: ugh, What do you think I am?
GFF: Your different
Zen: How so? (here it comes fellas)
GFF: Your like... um.... more of a brother
Zen: AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

The convo basically ended 20 seconds later after I told her how blind she was. Its seems to me the thing that works the best with these "women" is this. Become conceited with how great of a guy your are. If you look at the convo above and go "Oh shit thats me" then listen up. Women love nothing more than attention so with that being said approach a new girl be yourself and as soon as she seems interested distance youself from her.

I know it works because I had my brother do it on a girl he recently met. There getting along great so shes in his car and continues to play some R&B song over and over and over while staring at him while hes not looking but she knows he can see her looking at him. Now his response to this is perfect.

*Song play time after time*
Him: Wow you must really like this song.
Her: (Theres no way he could be that dumb maybe hes not interested in me? OMG I must try harder.)

This brings me to another thing women believe they are being super clear with there signals so to them throwing themselves at you might be that whole looking at you when your not looking thing. In girl world this "game" = I want you but this is not how we see it this is how your direct with us.

Guy: So I hope you've had a good time tonight?
Girl: Yeah I did, wanna fuck?
Guy: Why yes, yes I would

Now that is direct. So ladies my question to you is WTF do you do this to the guys you claim to want so bad? The guy you claim to want so bad is also the guy you been neglecting for quite some time now.

[PantyWipe]

hey its even worse when yer a mix... girls treat you as the non-threatening guy friend because they "couldnt imagine doing something with someone like you"

[Jordanog]

yeah, I hear that shit. those girls that only date assholes and judge all men based on the assholes' actions. pisses me the fuck off.

[PantyWipe]

At 7/11/05 07:06 AM, jordanog wrote: yeah, I hear that shit. those girls that only date assholes and judge all men based on the assholes' actions. pisses me the fuck off.

amen, yo.

[GreenLanturn]

At 7/11/05 07:05 AM, AeonFlux84 wrote: hey its even worse when yer a mix... girls treat you as the non-threatening guy friend because they "couldnt imagine doing something with someone like you"

Yes, women can be pretty harsh intentionally or unintentionally.

I have some light to shed, but I will wait till some other views come in and I get the go ahead from Zen.

[PantyWipe]

Black Girls: "Oh but you look so white so we'd only look silly together."
White Girls: "OMG, I couldn't IMAGINE dating someone who's not fully white."

I'm going to start dating mexicans, yo

[GreenLanturn]

At 7/11/05 07:09 AM, AeonFlux84 wrote: Black Girls: "Oh but you look so white so we'd only look silly together."
White Girls: "OMG, I couldn't IMAGINE dating someone who's not fully white."

I'm going to start dating mexicans, yo

Umm...I understand the point you're trying to touch on, but this was more of a general females turning down "the nice guy"' and giving them the friend/brother role while chasing the what eventually leads to a painful situation.

[ZenGaijin]

At 7/11/05 07:09 AM, AeonFlux84 wrote: Black Girls: "Oh but you look so white so we'd only look silly together."
White Girls: "OMG, I couldn't IMAGINE dating someone who's not fully white."

I'm going to start dating mexicans, yo

Women are just silly it would be funny if it wasn't so damne sad.

[PantyWipe]

At 7/11/05 07:12 AM, TheSpectre wrote: Umm...I understand the point you're trying to touch on, but this was more of a general females turning down "the nice guy"' and giving them the friend/brother role while chasing the what eventually leads to a painful situation.

just bitching about how picky/stupid/cruel some girls are in general. :-D sorry i strayed off topic

[GreenLanturn]

At 7/11/05 07:13 AM, AeonFlux84 wrote: just bitching about how picky/stupid/cruel some girls are in general. :-D sorry i strayed off topic

Oh no, go ahead. That was valid point you were making. I haven't heard of that happening much, but for bringing to our attention I at least know I'm interested in hearing more of how this happens.

[ZenGaijin]

At 7/11/05 07:16 AM, TheSpectre wrote:

At 7/11/05 07:13 AM, AeonFlux84 wrote: just bitching about how picky/stupid/cruel some girls are in general. :-D sorry i strayed off topic

Oh no, go ahead. That was valid point you were making. I haven't heard of that happening much, but for bringing to our attention I at least know I'm interested in hearing more of how this happens.

Yea this thread is brought to you by Mountain Dew and my built up frustration.

[ZenGaijin]

Alright I brought this back to see what you later day people think about this.

Even though some of you may be too young.

[DanMalo]

Its true.

Women seem to be attracted to men who either show no interest, or are in relationships.

Hardly any girls were "after me" in the past. As soon as I get a girlfriend and am no longer flirting or trying to impress anyone... ZING! Here come the girls.

WTF?

Its kinda funny, though. "Sorry... I have a girlfriend. We can be friends though." ha ha

I never thought I'd say that.

[ZenGaijin]

At 7/11/05 03:05 PM, DanMalo wrote: Its true.

Women seem to be attracted to men who either show no interest, or are in relationships.

Hardly any girls were "after me" in the past. As soon as I get a girlfriend and am no longer flirting or trying to impress anyone... ZING! Here come the girls.

WTF?

Its kinda funny, though. "Sorry... I have a girlfriend. We can be friends though." ha ha

Its really sad how well that will work. Because as soon as you say that shes thinking "hmm, he seems nice I have to get him."

I never thought I'd say that.

Yeah and sadly thats exactly why I works. Women are completly insane.

[CaedaFera]

I can understand your anger in this, plus, the immediate desire to state that all girls are like this. Okay, the majority of girls are like this. Yes. I admit it, you are correct to state that this is a common practice umongst females, especially the "I think of you as a brother" statement. Truth is, either that chick is insane or there is seriously one thing that stops the two of them from hooking up and it's something that's a very unlikely change. I really can't complain on your subject, but I do say this. I hope that she gets over whatever it is, at least give you a chance or something... I mean, everybody deserves a chance, right?

[ZenGaijin]

At 7/11/05 03:53 PM, CaedaFera wrote: I can understand your anger in this, plus, the immediate desire to state that all girls are like this. Okay, the majority of girls are like this. Yes. I admit it, you are correct to state that this is a common practice umongst females, especially the "I think of you as a brother" statement. Truth is, either that chick is insane or there is seriously one thing that stops the two of them from hooking up and it's something that's a very unlikely change. I really can't complain on your subject, but I do say this. I hope that she gets over whatever it is, at least give you a chance or something... I mean, everybody deserves a chance, right?

I subscribe to the fact that I am great and she sucks for not realizing that. Yeah I just realized that shes never gonna put 2 and 2 together and date me so I just gave up trying. And I just noticed how well ignoring women seems to work its like there all starved of attention and you giving it too them and then taking it away its like the perfect bait for a trap.

[CaedaFera]

At 7/11/05 04:01 PM, Zen_Gaijin wrote: I subscribe to the fact that I am great and she sucks for not realizing that. Yeah I just realized that shes never gonna put 2 and 2 together and date me so I just gave up trying. And I just noticed how well ignoring women seems to work its like there all starved of attention and you giving it too them and then taking it away its like the perfect bait for a trap.

Let me counter your last statement with a point of a matter right now. Okay, if you haven't picked up on it yet, I'm a girl myself. A few weeks ago, I went on an outing with a bunch of my friends. One guy and the rest female, we all were having a great time. It was even better the fact that me and the guy were getting a little cosy. However, after that day, I haven't heard anything from him, even called him once and got almost no response. The point of the matter is the "give the attention, take it away, they'll come crawling to you" thing is true, play it wrong and you end up with a pissed off chica after you. Considering, yes, I'm annoyed about this fact, but I'm not letting it get to me. It's not like I'm sitting by the phone waiting for him to call. It's actually the exact opposite. I'm out there, testing the waters again, trying to find a good man have in my life.

[Lost-Chances]

most women around my area expect to have their asses cleaned. basicly, if you don't do what she want you to do, she dumps you, if you don't do where she wants you to do something, she dumps you, if you don't like something or like something and she doesn't agree with you, she dumps you. it goes on. it's annoying.

[ZenGaijin]

Well I'm not saying its foolproof but you have to learn how long is too long to wait to recall them in your instance the guy probably waited too long. It works and its sad that you basically have to trick a girl into liking you. I'm only 20 but these little games women play are more annoying than cute.

[CaedaFera]

Really doesn't matter, Zen. He's cute, and it was one day, wasn't even supposed to be a date. I'd chill with him, but unless there is a totally believable reason... I don't think I'd let myself get involved.

[ZenGaijin]

At 7/11/05 04:22 PM, CaedaFera wrote: Really doesn't matter, Zen. He's cute, and it was one day, wasn't even supposed to be a date. I'd chill with him, but unless there is a totally believable reason... I don't think I'd let myself get involved.

Him: I been really meaning to get back with you. I would like to apoligize for not calling sooner. I mean your a very attractive women and you don't have time to wait on a guy like me.
You: OMG, I tottally understand.

This is not very likely but it seems like the guy still has a shot. I respect you for saying that the ignoring them ideas works more often than not. I just wish I had to play some stupid game to get a girl interested.

[CaedaFera]

At 7/11/05 04:32 PM, Zen_Gaijin wrote: Him: I been really meaning to get back with you. I would like to apoligize for not calling sooner. I mean your a very attractive women and you don't have time to wait on a guy like me.
You: OMG, I tottally understand.

Don't count me that easy Zen. I mean, yeah, I'm optimistic and I liked the guy, but I'm not gonna fall all over him if/when he finally decides to talk to me again. Understanding, I believe he was on vacation between the time we had met up and yesterday. And it's not like we were dating, so I'm not too pissed or paranoid about it.

[MattTheParanoidKat]

did you mean to post the fucking thing twice in this thread cuz you did the same thing when you posted this topic frankley once was enough but whatever ypou were talking about it was dead on right *thumbs up*